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i was NC for 2yrs, and over her. She dumped me ,as she has done several times over the last 6 years.

 

She begged me to visit her 1000 miles away and invited to stay at her place. I went.

 

It was great for the first couple of days,, It felt like a honeymoon, than she reverted back to her old fickle self. I felt unwanted and uncomfortable the last couple of days.

 

I was always treated her well, never cheated, etc. She cant be in relationship with any man, maybe because of herr screwed up childhood

 

I realize something after all this heartache, time.

 

You can't change anyone. They have to evolve on their own

 

She hasn't.

 

My advice, you cant go back to an ex until they have done some serious changing/evolving. Otherwise your hurting yourself when you go back again and again.

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So is this correct? After 2 years you slept with her the first day? Not a good idea. At least you know the ex hasn't changed.

Edited by Sugarkane
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