helena_bloom Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 hi my ex and i broke up after 1,5 year, because he told me it is impossible for us to see in the next few months because he got new job and must work harder. every time i tried to talk to him about that he answered "we have solved that,i'll try to find time but i can't promise now, there is chance for us to see eacth other soon etc." but i realized situation won't get better. i suggest we should break up if we cannot find any compromise,but he didn't want to talk about break up at all.finally he agreed and we broke up 2 weeks ago.i said we shouldn't have any contact,possibly once a month..he contacted me few days later, twice ,like "hey what's up" and i acted cold because i don't want to have depleted talks, i mean..we are together or we don't.actually i wanted to change his mind and find time for me. have you ever been in similar situation? and men, what would you do and how would you feel..? or maybe i should text him first and make first major step? please help
Asda Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I would like to hear from my lady that she will wait for me no matter what, but she wants me back as fast as possible. To force situation will make it even worse, Long Distance is a very difficult thing and only together can overcome this type of test. No need to dream that somehow it will be OK, it is not, you are the one who in control. And need to talk with your partner, to talk about any situation you are facing. Battle of characters is not a bad thing but better to avoid this. Discussion, compassion, patience.
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