Gingerxr2 Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Today I'm starting to see the real reasons why my relationship ended , can see the cracks , the bad points and where we as a couple could of changed and maybe saved the relationship !!! It's harder knowing that there's nothing I can do to change this now ! She's moved on and blocked me out her life end of !! Sucks
cavalier99 Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 I can clearly see my role in the end of my 8 yr rs. In fact I half new it during the last year of the RS and didn't make the effort. Sucks. But maybe there was a reason i didn't want to make the extra effort. You know? She had here fair share of responsibility also. Lessons learned for the next one. NO REGRETS. Cav
Author Gingerxr2 Posted February 15, 2013 Author Posted February 15, 2013 Well, its good that you see it. So, she has moved on, and the outcome will not be changed. Now, the next step is to see what you did and didn't do in the relationship, how you acted, responded, treated her, etc and look into why you were the way you were. It takes two people to be in a relationship, and typically takes two people to break a relationship down (although the magnitude of each person's role in it falling apart can vary dramatically). So, even if she d**ked you over, its doubtful that you're blameless. So, forget about anything that she did/didn't do. Just look at your role and what you did/didn't do in the relationship. Once you've objectively looked at yourself, you can take the things you've realized and learned and store that information, so that the next time you enter into a relationship, you'll do so with some additional wisdom and perspective. Good luck, man. Yeah I agree there never smoke without fire and all that , but I just feel like I should of spotted the signs etc ?? Ahhh to late now ! Actions speak louder than words and I can't do nothing but sit and wonder now
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