marklarsson Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Just a quick question for the users im currently on NO Contact. and i do want my ex back. i think she currently has GIGS but i was just wondering is it necessary to delete my ex off facebook and my twitter? i dont check her facebook nor do i check her twitter. im not even tempted to. but in terms of her seeing what i post, do i have to stop her from seeing what i post by deleting her? ps: Im not posting things to do with the break up like sad songs and quotes or nothing like that. just normal stuff and pictures of me, with friends etc..you know normal facebook stuff. thanks for talking the time to reply
tvball11 Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Just a quick question for the users im currently on NO Contact. and i do want my ex back. i think she currently has GIGS but i was just wondering is it necessary to delete my ex off facebook and my twitter? i dont check her facebook nor do i check her twitter. im not even tempted to. but in terms of her seeing what i post, do i have to stop her from seeing what i post by deleting her? ps: Im not posting things to do with the break up like sad songs and quotes or nothing like that. just normal stuff and pictures of me, with friends etc..you know normal facebook stuff. thanks for talking the time to reply Yeah you should delete all reminders so you can really stick to no-contact! It will let her know that you are getting yourself right. If she asks just say you need to clear your head and part of it is deleting reminders for now.
Love Bytes Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Don't worry about what she sees. You go NC for you, not her. If you aren't tempted to check her page, and you're not posting depressing whiny FB statuses, I wouldn't worry too much about it. If anything, you can block her posts and things she's tagged in if you'd rather not see it. But it's your call...I'm sure there are plenty who disagree with me.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Don't worry about what she sees. You go NC for you, not her. If you aren't tempted to check her page, and you're not posting depressing whiny FB statuses, I wouldn't worry too much about it. If anything, you can block her posts and things she's tagged in if you'd rather not see it. But it's your call...I'm sure there are plenty who disagree with me. Yeah, I didn't delete my ex, I just shut off her news feed and didn't click on her page for four months. I clicked on it recently and I periodically check in now, but I didn't go full block. Mostly because it would have caused a bigger hassle than what is was worth and because I didn't really care if she knew what I was doing or not. I didn't want to know what she was up to, but I didn't care if she knew what I was doing.
lovelifexx Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Just block her from the status updates and photos you don't want her to see. You can now block people from individual posts. 1
Sexy Teddy Bear Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 I didn't delete my ex. She actually stopped using this Facebook and started using her old one again. And I am not friends on that one. I think the reason she switched Facebooks is so she could have a line of contact open with me for whatever reason. That's fine with me though. I don't see what she is doing and she doesn't see....well, she can see what I'm doing, if she logs into this Facebook. But that doesn't matter, as long as I can't see when she changes to 'in a relationship with so-and-so'. And as long as I don't start seeing any cheesy, lovey-dovey status updates about her new BF that use to be about me, then I am fine. Well...not fine, this break up is terrible. But you get the point.
lullaby Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Just block her from the status updates and photos you don't want her to see. You can now block people from individual posts. I agree with Lovelife. You can just block her for the timebeing and then you can decide whether to take the next step and eliminate her from your contacts.
salem mark Posted February 16, 2013 Posted February 16, 2013 Mark, for NC to work you have disappear like u moved to Mars, yes delete her!!!!! 1
Author marklarsson Posted February 17, 2013 Author Posted February 17, 2013 Mark, for NC to work you have disappear like u moved to Mars, yes delete her!!!!! Even though I do want her back. Don't I have to keep the lines of communications opened if she wants to contact?
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