syw0806 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I met this guy online, we went out for two dates so far and he always texts me right after dates and every day. Even several times a day. We didnt kiss on the first date, later he told me he can be shy. I can see him get shy sometimes.. anyways at the end of the second date he finally kissed me and that led to third base. Eversince hes been telling me how hes attracted to me how he never hadsuch intimate first kiss ..all sweet blablas. And we know that we will have sex on the next date.. hes just so excited lol I know he can wait 1or2 more dates but hed be so annoyed..haha He asked me to stay over next time.. told me he wants to see me waking up in the morning and we can have brunch together. We never talked about relationship stuffs but he asked me about my dating life and told me he wouldnt bother me like other guys did.. and he asked me to make time at least once a wk for him..I told he theres no other guy bt seems like he doesnt buy that. So do you think its too soon? Also guys do you ask girls to stay over even if youre not interested? ..just to have sex?
SmileFace Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I met this guy online, we went out for two dates so far and he always texts me right after dates and every day. Even several times a day. We didnt kiss on the first date, later he told me he can be shy. I can see him get shy sometimes.. anyways at the end of the second date he finally kissed me and that led to third base. Eversince hes been telling me how hes attracted to me how he never hadsuch intimate first kiss ..all sweet blablas. And we know that we will have sex on the next date.. hes just so excited lol I know he can wait 1or2 more dates but hed be so annoyed..haha He asked me to stay over next time.. told me he wants to see me waking up in the morning and we can have brunch together. We never talked about relationship stuffs but he asked me about my dating life and told me he wouldnt bother me like other guys did.. and he asked me to make time at least once a wk for him..I told he theres no other guy bt seems like he doesnt buy that. So do you think its too soon? Also guys do you ask girls to stay over even if youre not interested? ..just to have sex? Is this even a question? Anyway... have sex when you think it is right not based on him being annoyed or some time line.
pteromom Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 So do you think its too soon? Also guys do you ask girls to stay over even if youre not interested? ..just to have sex? I think it depends on your goals. If you are hoping to build a long-term relationship with him, then yes, I think it is too soon. The "not buying" what you are telling him, the making plans for brunch after sex, the asking you to keep one night a week clear for him, the getting "annoyed" at having to wait more than three dates for sex... it's not clear yet if he's stable and wanting a relationship. I would get to know him a little better and talk about his intentions before you go there and get more emotionally invested. If you are just wanting to date and have fun and enjoy sex, then sure, go for it. As far as the talking about brunch stuff, yes, guys do that even if they only want sex. They'll even talk about future plans and life goals and all kinds of stuff to make you feel like they are more invested than they are.
snowflakes88 Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 If you want a relationship, yes it is too soon. It doesn't even sound like you're sure he's looking for something serious - so if you are, I wouldn't have sex until you figure out what he's looking for. And yeah, asking you to spend the night or having breakfast doesn't mean he's interested in anything more than sex.
miss_jaclynrae Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 If you are over thinking it this much... it is too soon. I have NEVER over contemplated sleeping with someone. It happened when it was meant to. That is what happened with me and my boyfriend. We were on date 5, but then again, it was only a week after we met. [we were inseparable from the get go] We never had the relationship talk beforehand, it just happened, and I am so happy it did.
outsidethebox Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 I met this guy online, we went out for two dates so far and he always texts me right after dates and every day. Even several times a day. We didnt kiss on the first date, later he told me he can be shy. I can see him get shy sometimes.. anyways at the end of the second date he finally kissed me and that led to third base. Eversince hes been telling me how hes attracted to me how he never hadsuch intimate first kiss ..all sweet blablas. And we know that we will have sex on the next date.. hes just so excited lol I know he can wait 1or2 more dates but hed be so annoyed..haha He asked me to stay over next time.. told me he wants to see me waking up in the morning and we can have brunch together. We never talked about relationship stuffs but he asked me about my dating life and told me he wouldnt bother me like other guys did.. and he asked me to make time at least once a wk for him..I told he theres no other guy bt seems like he doesnt buy that. So do you think its too soon? Also guys do you ask girls to stay over even if youre not interested? ..just to have sex? everything bad was your opinion. everything he actually did was nice.
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