ohno_itsjames Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 It's not a problem any more, as we're not dating any more (she started it, then ended it by ignoring me for whatever reason) But yeah, on our last date we were talking and she asked me if I had ever loved anyone, I said "I thought I did" and went onto talking about it and in the end It came to me saying "so yeah, I guess I'm not sure now" I then asked her if she had ever loved anyone, she said "no, I've had deep feelings for someone though, and I have been Loved" she later went onto telling me "I didn't love him and he loved me" I said "so you left him after he told you?" She said "Yeah I did, I didn't love him and couldn't do that to him" This is only for future reference (should I ever be told the same thing), how would you act? How would you feel about it? After she said that "You don't need to love for a relationship" I agreed and at the time I thought to myself "hmmm, if we're to get that far, that might be a problem..." Is that a potential problem? What would you think? Would you leave someone over that? It worries me ever so slightly actually.
Absewarrior Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 ohno: No, you don't need to love for a relationship...this is called being an acquaintance. For future reference, when someone spouts off nonsense...run very far because they are searching for drama and excitement and have no use for a healthy, stable and committed normal relationship. AW
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