frederickkk Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 (edited) so today was hell. tears, despair. i phoned the florist, went to order, then stopped. she is in my hometown tomorrow im keeping out of sight, despite being asked to come and be part of what is going on. what i dont understand, is she wasnt the heartless type. i just dont get it. Edited February 14, 2013 by frederickkk
Zammo25 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 This. " i phoned the florist, went to order, then stopped. " This. Keep strong buddy you are making great progress.
Nasher Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 so today was hell. tears, despair. i phoned the florist, went to order, then stopped. she is in my hometown tomorrow im keeping out of sight, despite being asked to come and be part of what is going on. what i dont understand, is she wasnt the heartless type. i just dont get it. I feel for you friend. How does one we think we know, we love change so much in the blink of an eye? On a good day I think it's their self defence mechanism, protecting themselves and not wanting to hurt us by being cold. On a bad day I think the worse and another twenty questions pop up. I don't know the back story but she's just being strong, showing you she has moved forward. It's hard to comprehend right now and to be honest I feel the same about my own situation. The feeling is raw, you just want to shout "why don't you care anymore, you loved me". She does care, but not in the same way you want any longer. There is no way for time to heal other then you staying away and focusing on what's next in frederickkk's life. It's the hardest thing ever but you have to let go otherwise it will consume you Good luck, focus on an hour at a time if needs be - we are all here to help if we can.
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