grojas1986 Posted August 30, 2004 Posted August 30, 2004 Hey everyone, my gf just broke up with me a week ago. everything was going great and just changed over night. we had been dating for about 2 months but spent a lot of time together during that time. soon i fell in love with her. i recieved her phone call last weekend and she told me over the phone that she didn't want a committment anymore. after that she didn't want to talk to me and just avoided me. i asked if i could see her to talk to her in person and she said no. she doesn't answe my phone calls so i finally stopped calling but i left her messages saying that if she never wanted to talk to me or see me again to just tell me, but the last time she talked to me on the phone(2 days ago) she didn't say anything. i saw her at church yesterday and she just ignored me, i ignored her also. friday i talked to her sister since she wouldn't tell me the reason she didn't want to be with me anymore and so her sister called her. she told her sister that she broke up with me because i was moving too fast, since i told her the day before she broke up with me that i loved her. this is weird because we had been sleeping together for the past month or so and for that to scare someone is weird. any advice o how i can get her back? she is being really mean about the whole situation.
katie79 Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 be cool for a few weeks. Then step by step ask her out again. If she refuses, walk away and let her go.
NatoPMT Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 Grojas, if you get back together with her, and there's no reason to suggest you will, by expressing how you feel and being yourself you will end up in exactly the same situation next time you say something that scares her. Shes not ready to have someone love her and reciprocate those feelings. You told her something that should be received with happiness, but instead you received an emotional shut down. Recover from this and then work towards finding someone who will be glad of your love. BB
Author grojas1986 Posted September 1, 2004 Author Posted September 1, 2004 What would be a good approach to use? I am basically just going to stop by in a week and i just want to get some advice on what exactly to say and how to handle the situation.
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