Azaroth1 Posted August 30, 2004 Posted August 30, 2004 Trying to make and do what's right - My girlfriend broke up with me at the end of last year.... Reasons: Too far away 2 hours Messed up mentally about what her best friend did to her Both Work Too much Barely See each other Verge of getting boring, because we know so much about each other Spoke over the summer, often at first - fights broke out b/c i didn't see her views... and saw each other once.. Asked her if we will get back together and she said - she doesn't want to say yes to engrave it in stone. Over the summer we drifted apart asked her if we can hang out she saidn ot sure if she will have time.. I sort of moved on from there.. I didn't think she would be intrested in me anymore. We get back to school and She only said one line to me what are you doing here? I responded i been here all week (week before school started) I walked away with my friend, and that's pretty much it - Later in the week we were at my friends house/party bbq - She stayed inside for 90% of the time, I was out back for 100% of the time... As i was walking through the house from the front to the back our song played, and she was walking through ... she didn't respond with a goodbye when she was leaving.. i didn't do anything to this girl but love her fought, just b/c of hte maturity level on her side- and she toyed a bit with for a while.. then she finally stopped The thing i do not get is, this girl is very quiet around me - and we bump into each other a lot... and now i noticed why is she blocking me online? then unblocking me? at various times of the day? I really wish i understood why she is doing this, i remember last year when we went on break she didn't want to stop talking and now we don't say a word. I believe that i should not have to start talking to her, I tried a lot over the summer to express how much i care/love this girl... and i refuse to talk to her she can go to me if she wants to talk.. But that seems less than likely... Am i doing what's right? I know flat out i love this girl, but I will not and refuse to go out of my way further for this girl, unless she comes to me It sucks you loose a good friend in the progess but stuff happens, ya know? Am I being the better man, and just saying, Hi when i see her- I know last week when we first saw each other i could have talked more, but i felt i tried so hard to talk to her why should i go any more out on a limb..
morrigan Posted August 30, 2004 Posted August 30, 2004 She has her own reasons for acting the way she is, but it doesn't sound like she wants to talk to you/be around you at this point. I know that it feels bad that she is ignoring you, but she may feel it wouldn't be fair to keep talking to you and being friends if she truly does not want to be in a relationship with you again. It might not be a bad idea to not contact her in way from now on. It feels terrible when you realize someone doesn't have the same feelings towards you as you do for them, but you can't and shouldn't patiently wait for them to change their mind---that may never occur.
Azaroth1 Posted August 31, 2004 Posted August 31, 2004 You know, It really sucks - I wish we could be friends, but the girl just doesn't care enough for me... and I think I nee to keep her off my list and forget about her.... It's really hard - I see 100 of things that remind me of her around school, and the dreams i have about her are seeming like they are stoping. Thanks for the input and I think i must be on my way.... Thanks again Az
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