Lov3BUG Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 The guy I'm dating is really shy, respectful, and kind. He's great, but there's one factor that I'm noticing early on, here. He never makes the first move. It got to the point on our first date where I asked him if it was ok if I kissed him. Then he said it was ok. He seems like he really likes me. I always end up texting him first. I don't like having to start everything. He and I were thinking about having plans this weekend for a date, but if I don't text him first I'm worried that he'll just forget about it, and it won't happen. I'm not being a child here. It just seems somewhat evident that either 1) he's super shy. 2) he's really not that into me. From what he seems like though, is that he is. He listens and is really responsive during our conversations in person, he said, "You're so cute!" He said that he's been in a few relationships that didn't end well-- so maybe he's just scared of making moves? **Keep in mind, I've only hung out with him twice. But this is the pattern I'm noticing so far...**
CC12 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I'm not being a child here. It just seems somewhat evident that either 1) he's super shy. 2) he's really not that into me. I don't think you're being a child, but I do think you're jumping the gun a little. It's too soon to be all "Well, is he into me or isn't he? I need answers, now." You've only hung out twice, try to relax a little. It's way early. Just see where it goes. Also, it kind of seems like you haven't really given him much of a chance to make the first moves. You made the move to kiss him on your first date, you always text him first, and now you're getting anxious about the weekend date and you're worrying that he'll forget about it so you're again thinking of making the move. Maybe you should pull it back a little bit and let things unfold naturally.
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