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Just thought back today after my Ex texted me after 3 weeks of NC just feeding me breadcrumbs asking how I was and that she was thinking about me And right before I literally caved and took those Crumbs I thought back before how I'd been Down that road before. I'm pretty sure if it wasnt for all the advice I've recieced here and from my own expierences I'd be back in that endless loop of misery. I guess I'm just curious to see who else has been down this road and had the strength not to give in because that was hard as hell to do.

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I've only accomplished a week of NC (after 2 months of feeding off breadcrumbs and trying to get her back).

 

Last week I called it a day. Full NC. She has since messaged me twice and both times I haven't responded. Facebook will have told her that I read the messages so I'm sure she has got the hint - I'm out.

 

At times I think I'm being harsh - they were friendly messages and I also never told her I was going NC. I kinda feel mean. But on the other hand they are simply just breadcrumbs - a lifeline to keep me within her reach in case her new guy doesn't work out. And she went NC on me a couple of months ago without warning, so taste of her own medicine I guess.

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