mugen224 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I reconnected with this girl who I almost made it official with over the summer. We stopped talking out of the blue bc she got back with her long term ex of 5 years. So I didn't chase and eventually she came back telling me how horrible of a decision she made. I forgave her and eventually she dumped him. This is odd because she's still in touch with the guy even though she left him, she told me she relies on his mother bc she's a nurse and helps her get her meds. (young/18) what I'm trying to understand is will this ever work out if he's in the picture? Ever? It seems like I'm going to have to cut and run since this seems to be a big tie down weather it's true or not. Also well I should note that she revealed that she was never really "with him" according to her it wasn't serious more of a FWB kinda thing. I have no earthly idea what this even means, but I'm guessing I should anticipate her leaving out of the blue any minute now..
ChatroomHero Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 what I'm trying to understand is will this ever work out if he's in the picture? Ever? It seems like I'm going to have to cut and run since this seems to be a big tie down weather it's true or not. It could, you would be in the best position to determine if it might. From what I read though, it sounds like your BS radar is going off and you already know your answer.
pbjbear Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 What kind of meds is she getting? Just curious... Describe her behavior with her ex more. I dont see anything wrong with talking to an ex occasionally (as long as he or she is over them of course, but I think you feel she isnt over him...) as long as she has boundaries and makes you more important than him I find Im pretty good at guessing whether or not someone is over their ex, so if you feel she isnt your gut is prob right
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