Lescobar Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 I slept with this guy I've been seeing and it didn't go we'll . He has a girlfriend but was seeing me prior to seeing her. I changed my number and texted Him to say hi today. He was like" so this Is you? Do you think I care? I know there is nothing to do but move on which makes it hurt even more
veggirl Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 um yeah well he has a girlfriend that he started dating after sleeping with you, what did you expect? he chose her over you. why are you trying to chase a man who has a girlfriend? 2
Author Lescobar Posted February 14, 2013 Author Posted February 14, 2013 I think the reason is that he was telling me something diffrerent Really though I did need a slap in the face to wake up Still hurts when you are blinded by your own deelings
Chloe1980 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 Lescobar, Im sorry you are feeling sad. I feel the same as you. He was the best guy in the world, we shared very good moments, but he in just not into me, and i feel rejected and horrible. I dont know how to move on. We have to be strong, and continue with our lifes. I suggest you NC, I broke it today, and yesterday too, and he replied the same way he did to you. this is non sense, we have to move on
Sexy Teddy Bear Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 Just cause he chose this girl over you doesn't give him the right to be as mean as you say he's being. He seems like a d**k to me. I'm judging simply by that one sentence he said, "Do you think I care?". Um...you slept with the girl didn't you? You most certainly should care. At least enough to let her down as easily as possible.
Author Lescobar Posted February 14, 2013 Author Posted February 14, 2013 Thank you both so much I can't felt worse after that first response
veggirl Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 Thank you both so much I can't felt worse after that first response I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings, but you should focus on peoples actions...this guys words were nothing but fluff...nothing he was DOING was lining up with what he was saying to you. He was just saying things to keep you hooked. He sucks.
Author Lescobar Posted February 14, 2013 Author Posted February 14, 2013 Sorry i should have given some more backround. I was seeing him for about a year, then i didnt hear from him for a few weeks and suddenly he has a girlfried. I saw him recently and one thing led to another. but yes it is as though he chose her over me.
MrWombat Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Not only would it be dumb to reply to his text, it's dumb to come here obsessing about it. Be smart.
veggirl Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Sorry i should have given some more backround. I was seeing him for about a year, then i didnt hear from him for a few weeks and suddenly he has a girlfried. I saw him recently and one thing led to another. but yes it is as though he chose her over me. Oh! Yes, that is very different from what your previous posts implied! Wow. He is a grade A douchebag, I am so sorry. He just disappeared and then reappeared with a gf after a YEAR of seeing you? Inexcusable, lose his # and never respond to any attempts at contact. He will come running back when the new girl is done with him, stay strong!
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