Do you HAVE to feel butterflies to know if you are in love?

[Katriunrod]

Just wondering

[ltjg45]

Nah.

 

However, sometimes all it takes is a punch from a female right in your stomach to know that you are in love.

 

You should keep that in mind. After all, which female is going through that much effort to punch you unless:

1. She wants to fight.

2. She doing it because she actually wants you to change.

 

I'm sure it's for #2 far more than #1.

[Katriunrod]

Nah.

 

However, sometimes all it takes is a punch from a female right in your stomach to know that you are in love.

 

You should keep that in mind. After all, which female is going through that much effort to punch you unless:

1. She wants to fight.

2. She doing it because she actually wants you to change.

 

I'm sure it's for #2 far more than #1.

 

Funny lol

Im a female i love my ex to death but i never felt the so called butterflies but when i was with him i know my face change and the happiness came out of my eyes <\3

[PhoenixRysing]

Every time I have ever had butterflies, it was fear causing it - not love. The one time I know that I was absolutely head over heels in love with a man, I never once had a butterfly (or any other insect for that matter). It was the opposite, it was calm, it was beautiful, it was solid. I adored him, respected him, and oh boy did I lust after him. I couldn't get enough. But there was not a butterfly in sight. I just felt him and all that he was, and that we fit.

 

The ones who crushed me, screwed me over, that never let me know where I stood - butterflies galore...

 

Maybe it's just me, but now I actually see it as a bad thing if I have butterflies beyond a reasonable point. Early on that kind of nervousness can make sense but if I am dating a guy more than a month or two and still feel that way, my spidey senses are screaming on high alert.

[sid3]

I think not. I get butterflies at least once a day sometimes much more. God there's so many attractive women out there!