ak8o8 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 My ex girlfriend has really moved on. I thought I had moved on as well, but this morning I found out my ex-girlfriend had flowers and candy delivered to her and it bothers me. In November I traveled with her to meet her family. We broke up in December. She already has a new boyfriend. I'm not sure how to feel about this. It upsets me that she could move on so fast when we were talking about marriage as recently as three months ago. I guess I should feel like I escaped from someone who really wasn't as committed as I was. Problem is, she was my first love and I was totally committed to her. How do I deal with this?
mammasita Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 UGH, that sucks. Im so sorry you had to find that out. Have you taken any steps to avoid details about her? That's my first suggestion. I'm dreading the day I find out that my ex is with someone else
Author ak8o8 Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 Problem is that I work part time with her and I found out through a coworker friend of mine this morning. She had texted me wondering if I had sent them. I did not. I was maintaining NC since our breakup.
Author ak8o8 Posted February 14, 2013 Author Posted February 14, 2013 It's getting real bad. I can't stop wondering what this guy looks like or how they met or all kinds of questions that I probably don't want to know the answers to. Couple that with being rejected this morning by a girl I was attracted to and I'm feeling depressed.
coffeebean201 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 Does she know who the flowers and candies are from? Just because she has moved on with her life doesn't mean she is super happy. Try and make friends with someone else at work (guy or girl) and that will help with the social awkwardness. Happy Valentine's Day!
Author ak8o8 Posted February 14, 2013 Author Posted February 14, 2013 My friend confirmed that they were from my ex's new boyfriend. I can't even type those words out without feeling a stabbing pain in my heart. I don't know how in three months time someone can introduce her boyfriend to her family, break up with him and then have another boyfriend. Where does all her emotions disappear to so quickly?
coffeebean201 Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 A lot of women have this picture-perfect view of marriage/relationship and no one could ever live up to it. Maybe she is one of those women. Or maybe she is the kind of person who gets put off by the slightest thing and if that happens she just moves on (at lightening speed). Women can be really judgmental.
Coping Vortex Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 My friend confirmed that they were from my ex's new boyfriend. I can't even type those words out without feeling a stabbing pain in my heart. I don't know how in three months time someone can introduce her boyfriend to her family, break up with him and then have another boyfriend. Where does all her emotions disappear to so quickly? Believe it. It happened to me too. I was with her for years. The new bf. a few months he already took her and her kids on vacation etc. Believe it. When you break off a serious relationship all if those feelings that are flying around have to go somewhere. They land on the guy/girl. It sucks. Trust me we all know.
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