Sexy Teddy Bear Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 He has zero empathy. Like your ex. I once thought my dog had stopped breathing. She hadn't, was just in a deep sleep but she is old and isn't in good health. This obviously scared the life out of me so I went upstairs to tell him. Started crying. You know what he done? Nothing. Just sat there playing his chess game. A hug would have been nice. What a douche. My ex never experienced anything like almost losing a pet while I was with her, but there were many times I was able to comfort her. One time, she lost her camera. She does photography see, and her camera is her life. She was devastated. We were convinced that it was left on the roof of a car that drove off down the street. I walked with her up and down the road for about a mile. The whole way I was convincing her it would be just fine, that we would find it. Later that night, after she gave up looking for it, I went out again. With a flashlight in the pitch dark shining the light up and down the road. In the ditches, on lawns, on sidewalks. I looked for that thing for about 6 hours that day. In the end I couldn't find it. But I offered her my camera which was of significantly lower quality. And I even offered to buy her a new one. This is just one of the many things I have done for her that not many other guys would. Yet here I am, single and broken.
MrWombat Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Broke up on the 1st January. He told me that he isn't going to start dating again for a long while. Just found him on a dating site. One that we met on. So, you're upset he's looking again so soon. What were you doing on that dating site?
Own Worst Enemy Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 he said openly that he was well aware he might be making the biggest mistake of his life, but he was prepared to take that risk. in other words, he was totally checked out already! c.0ck. your ex sounds like he didn't get the point of the pet. which is fine - but the pet mattered to YOU. you could have been upset over losing a penny and it wouldn't matter. if he loved you, and you were upset, that was his place to comfort you. keep remembering stuff like that. it will help you get to the ANGER phase. then you can be ANGRYGIRL1, which is better!
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