tre101 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love.
NoLeafClover Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love. Were you abused as a child? What did you expect her to respond? You are like the typical dumper on this website. Walks out as he/she pleases then comes back crying with regret after months of NC. You are lucky she didn't tell you to F OFF 13
Keenly Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 You are quick to blame the other girl, but you left your girlfriend for her man. You went back only when it didn't work out.
TopCat22 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Why do you feel you deserved more than this as a reply? You tossed her aside to try things with someone else, most likely breaking her heart and then when your new squeeze didn't work out, you expect her to be there waiting for you, pining... If your girl had done this to you, would you want anything to do with her? She's not the one being childish here. Not being harsh, but you've learnt a valuable lesson here. Leave the poor girl alone and know that your decisions have consequences in the future. Learn some boundaries.
lovelifexx Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 When you hurt someone so bad like you did, you are not the same person to them anymore. She probably considered you to be a trustworthy, considerate, generous person. But when you left her for someone else and ripped her heart to pieces, she considers you to be selfish, cold, untrustworthy and hypocritical. And that is why you are not a good match for her anymore. You don't have the same values in her eyes. You made a big mistake. Sometimes, we hurt the people we love. Learn from this, so that you never do this again. I cheated on my first ex years and years ago, and then I wanted him back. He would not take me back and I will have to live with the regret the rest of my life. I can say that I would never, ever do that again, and since then I have never hurt any guy Ive been in a relationship with in any way, shape or form.
Jono85 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love. lmao @ the pure and utter bullsh*t line. this girl deserves some props for realizing what you are.
Sav Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Looks like the joke's on you buddy. But hey, everybody makes mistakes. Learn from this and move on. Know that not everyone will be at your fingertips whenever you want them to. You come across as a selfish, self-centered person. Your ex seemed to move on. Good for her. Now stop bothering her. Apologize properly and sincerely if you honestly felt apologetic. But other than that, let her move on with her life. This is a great life lesson, learn it, be a better person and hopefully a better boyf
TaraMaiden Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love. Liar. When you're 'crazy in love' with someone, you don't mess things up by getting involved with another girl. I love the way you put it though: but then this girl came and messed things up between us. Like it was all HER fault - you didn't do anything: She held a gun to your head and MADE it happen... Confused my eye. You loved it. Obviously. Otherwise you wouldn't have dumped your ex over it. Now - "Things ended".... (I bet she dumped you, didn't she?) So what do you do? Ooooh. I know! Check first base! Maybe there's still a furrow to plough there...! Cool ex-GF, summed you up a treat. 'Mismatched' means you're a flaky cheat, and she don't touch those kinda guys. Sorry bud, you had it coming. Now you got it. "Childish"...? I don't think it's her who's been childish..... 3
Njeanne Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 All you felt was lust and infatuation, you had no feelings for that girl you never did. Learn from your mistakes and stop following your hormones, love isn't only feeling. If I were talking face to face I would prob have said "stop following your dick" You lost her forever now, and she is shown mature in her respond I salute her for that. 2
KatZee Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Were you abused as a child? What did you expect her to respond? You are like the typical dumper on this website. Walks out as he/she pleases then comes back crying with regret after months of NC. You are lucky she didn't tell you to F OFF I literally almost spit my food out at this response!! :lmao::lmao::lmao: OP you thought grass was greener, turns out it wasn't, and you realized you lost something great. Unfortunately, your ex dealt with the emotions, processed it, got over you and realizes she's much better off! Good for her! 3
destroyed4sho Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love. WHAT?? You break up with her for another girl and she sends you a message saying he can't talk to you anymore and SHE IS BEING CHILDISH? WHAT??? This post disgusted me.
H3Drvr Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Lol! Someone came to the wrong neighbor hood! Haha 2
flitzanu Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love. it means "hey, i realized we weren't a great match anyway, and i have fully moved on to someone else and not lost any sleep over you not being in my life. good day!"
Joby72 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We were together for about 9 months but then this girl came and messed things up between us. I got confused I thought I had feelings for the other girl so I ended things with my girlfriend. She was upset and crying and sent me a really long message saying she couldn't speak to me ever again. I ignored her thinking that she was being childish and that she would come around eventually. But months later and I've heard not a peep from her. Things ended between me and the other girl and I've really been missing my ex. I messaged her yesterday on Facebook. I wanted to contact her much sooner but I guess I was scared about what she'd say. In the message I told her that I'm sorry for everything that happened and that there's not been a day I haven't thought about her. Her response: okayyyy… well… don't worry, we were a mismatched couple anyway. Nothing to lose sleep over. It's cool! That's it. Just one line. I'm a little baffled and don't know what to say back. Mismatched? I don't know what she means by that. We were crazy in love. i think maybe she has someone else now and shes just trying to say that she doesnt hold it against you what you did..
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