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I recently have come out of a long term relationship and therefore have started going out to bars a lot more with friends to meet new people. I have had a few encounters now the past few times I have gone out, usually afterwards just going our separate ways as I am not really ready for anything yet.

 

Last night though, I met this girl and I really quite like her, and would be interested in seeing her again. The thing is we didn't really talk for all that long before she left, it was pretty late and the bar was closing. I kissed her a few times and upon returning from a trip to the smoking area, she was gone.

 

I have found a way via social networking to contact her, but I am just wondering if it's even worth pursuing? We have mutual friends, would messaging her come across as a bit desperate? Or do you think I should wait until the next time we are all out together and properly pursue it from there. I am new to the dating thing to be honest, is kissing at bars just considered normal and a bit of fun?

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Maybe she thinks smoking is a turn off. :confused:

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Or do you think I should wait until the next time we are all out together and properly pursue it from there.

 

Do this.

 

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