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Been seeing this girl for around 4 months. She is a very responsive and interested female, I am 25, she is 23. We havent been crazy serious, she travels for work so we usually hang out 2-3 times a week.

 

So we last hung out on sunday, she was out with her friends most of the day but was texting me all day, saying how she wanted to come say hi to me before she left to go home. So we hung out Sunday night, she said she couldnt stay that late cuz she had to work the next day, but we ended up having sex and kinda made her stay much later than she wanted to.

 

So over the last couple days, we have barely talked (she usually is a texting fiend) and she has shown little interest. We have plans to go to a Knicks(basketball) game tonight and also we have vday plans for tomorrow. Am i overanalyzing this all or is there something going on? I'm not trying to drop all this $$ on her in the next few days if shes starting to flake out.

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Been seeing this girl for around 4 months. She is a very responsive and interested female, I am 25, she is 23. We havent been crazy serious, she travels for work so we usually hang out 2-3 times a week.

 

So we last hung out on sunday, she was out with her friends most of the day but was texting me all day, saying how she wanted to come say hi to me before she left to go home. So we hung out Sunday night, she said she couldnt stay that late cuz she had to work the next day, but we ended up having sex and kinda made her stay much later than she wanted to.

 

So over the last couple days, we have barely talked (she usually is a texting fiend) and she has shown little interest. We have plans to go to a Knicks(basketball) game tonight and also we have vday plans for tomorrow. Am i overanalyzing this all or is there something going on? I'm not trying to drop all this $$ on her in the next few days if shes starting to flake out.

 

 

Your best bet is to see how things go tomorrow. If it is awkward or she acts differently around you on vday, then you know either she is not as into you anymore or is affraid of commitment. keep us updated.

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thanks. she is def not the boyfriend type, but she is fun and I honestly didnt expect the relationship to last this long (i came out of an LTR).

 

I think im just being crazy, but I will keep you posted.

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