mlcj69 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 We broke up 4 days ago after dating for what I think was 2 years? We never really declared it when. Right now we are giving each other space so we can reevaluate ourselves in a week. See where we are. If she needs more space ill give her it. But as of now we are broke up. Lately I've just been really stressed out and stressing out why did she break up with me if everything was so great. I just kept asking and asking. I just wanted answers and closure for this break up. I nearly broke up with her last year because someone came along and really distracted me. I really liked her. This was a long distance relationship so distractions tend to develop. But I knew I loved my current ex. Knowing my ex was suffering with depression and not being confident in herself, who know what could happen if I ended it. And I didn't want to live with the guilt for the rest of my life knowing I was the reason for such thing to happen to her I've given it some thought today and I really should be happy for her. She's gotten over her depression and confidence issue and wants to see what it's like to have a life besides me. Not necessarily meeting and dating other guys, though I'm sure it would come to that, but just having fun. But I'm still confused as to why does she feel tied down in this relationship even though I tell her to go hang out with friends and such.
Love Bytes Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Similar situation, sort of. My ex says she needs to see if she can be happy without me. Acknowledges that there's the possibility of a future with us, but doesn't want me to wait around for her. Life...it blows, doesn't it?
Author mlcj69 Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 Similar situation, sort of. My ex says she needs to see if she can be happy without me. Acknowledges that there's the possibility of a future with us, but doesn't want me to wait around for her. Life...it blows, doesn't it? I'm really not sure what the problem is. There are multiple problems but yesterday she mentioned "intimacy" when she texted me to see how I was doing (we are giving each other space) We are a LDR so I understand. But even when we are together we can't achieve the infancy we wish we can have because of privacy :/ But then again, she feels tied down for whatever reason. It's because she's so used to it and know nothing else. She did say she was lonely while we weren't texting. I hope she realizes what we had and comes back. Though its not much at a distance, but when we are together, it's wonderful. :/ I know eventually we would get over each other, but just something about her feel different.
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