mugen224 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 It was brief about 2 months but I need to know if the no contact rule applies if you were the one who was dumped. I mean she dumped me and blocked me off everything even though I didn't chase. I just want to know if no contact would work towards my benefit. She's already done it once and she came back, but we weren't together when she did and she kept my number. We were just "talking" then.
SendHope Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 NC is for the dumpee's benefit though it applies to the dumper as well.
Author mugen224 Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 even if it was sudden and she wasn't sure of what she wanted?
SendHope Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Yes. I got dumped because my ex didn't know what she wanted. Except she know what she didn't want is a relationship atm (we were together 9 months). I know NC sucks but it really is the best way for us to move on and heal our hearts.
Author mugen224 Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 It's been a month already and I understand. I just want to know if there's a chance she'll try to re connect. Or if I have to make the effort. By the way thanks for your time I appreciate it.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 So she's basically dumped you twice in the span of two months? I think it's time to find someone else. 1
confused836 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Similar thing happened to me. In my past relationship that lasted a long time I was confident she would come back and she did each time we had problems. However with something as short as months I know she won't come back anytime soon if at all. I would just try to move on if I were you. What sucks about the short ones are not what happened but what could gave been. But just know that you're a catch and if this girl doesn't see it now it's her loss. If she comes back in the future then think about whether you want to take her back then but there's nothing you can do about it now.
aliceinthebox Posted February 14, 2013 Posted February 14, 2013 It depends. Why did she break up with you? I know dumpers are kind of taboo on here , but I dumped my boyfriend after 4 months. I loved him, but he just didn't seem like he was trying to make an effort and just kept disappointing me.
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