darkmoon Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 (edited) i got winked at, ok, it's flattering, but i can't help thinking a wink means he'd like a screw as opposed to him looking for a compatible woman to build a relationship with i do not know this man very well, i think he's involved with a woman already because she co-hosts an event with him which is where i met him, i do not really want to date him whatever tbh, he's not my type, but that wink bothers me because it's like a request for a screw - is it? i hope he winks at somebody else at these events, and so expects nothing from me, tbh, right now i feel got at by his wink, men can get snarky if declined... but what does a wink mean? sex or dates, i think it's just sex he wants 'fess up men Edited February 13, 2013 by darkmoon Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 He probably had a piece of dust in his eye. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 I would never in a million years consider a wink a request to screw. People wink hello...as in: hey, I see you! Or to indicate a shared joke: I'm kidding or I saw you trip. The butcher winks when he's given me the good part of the roast for cheap. I think I've winked at the coffee shop when I've over tipped the waitress and know it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
its a lifestyle Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 (edited) I wink, I picked up the habit years ago.. it goes with a very slight head twitch and subtle smile, I guess it's a more fun/cheeky way of smiling. I remember being sat in starbucks with my friend and noticed a girl sitting a couple of tables away, her eyes were burning holes in my face, after I noticed I gave her the cheekiest wink ever, she went bright red and trying to contain her smile.. funny moment, she said "cya" on the way out too as we walked past, felt kind of bad for not talking to her think she wanted me to Edited February 13, 2013 by its a lifestyle Link to post Share on other sites
harnold Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 As a guy... I don't use the wink a lot. But personally, and in contrast to the posters above me... Yeah, I only use it when I'm feeling very cocky and have very overt sexual intentions. It's pretty creepy IMO, so ill only do it if I can tell that girl is feeling me, or if I just wanna be a creep regardless ha. I think i can probably speak for my friends too. Definitely a gesture with extremely flirtatious (and suggestive, in my book) connorations. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RogerWallace111 Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 it just depends what the rest of his face was doing. if he wasn't really smiling, or was giving a more sly smile, it's probably sexual. if he had a nice happy grin on his face, it's probably not. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 i got winked at, ok, it's flattering, but i can't help thinking a wink means he'd like a screw as opposed to him looking for a compatible woman to build a relationship with You're reading too much into it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 He is very confident and cocky. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 Not a winker, (just a wanker). It may be ancient code for "oh yeah, we have to screw" but I have a dimple I can use to communicate that. It's better than a wink. Word. Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 It just means he's gay. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Crusoe Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 Maybe he's a compulsive winker. Link to post Share on other sites
frustr8ed Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 I would never in a million years consider a wink a request to screw. People wink hello...as in: hey, I see you! Or to indicate a shared joke: I'm kidding or I saw you trip. The butcher winks when he's given me the good part of the roast for cheap. I think I've winked at the coffee shop when I've over tipped the waitress and know it. Wink sex ranks just below make up sex. Johns Hopkins University actually did a study on this. I believe the doctor that ran the study's name was Dr. Clint Taurus if you want to google it. I watched it on 60 Minutes. You're missing out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 Ooooooh....'Winks!' I thought it was a typo..... Link to post Share on other sites
sabre80 Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 I am not much for winking. My face looks goofy when I try it. Like I am having a seizure or something. People generally respond with "OMG are you OK should I call 911?" I get better results with a grin and wiggling my ears. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted February 13, 2013 Share Posted February 13, 2013 I get better results with a grin and wiggling my ears. DUMBO!! Where have you been? I bin worried sick.....! Link to post Share on other sites
Author darkmoon Posted February 13, 2013 Author Share Posted February 13, 2013 a wanking winking man, then, not really, yes, I get it, a wink is no big deal, thanks everybody for writing me Link to post Share on other sites
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