Overprotecting parents

[Katriunrod]

Hi guys. Im a female 20 will be 21 in a month. Let me start of by saying that i already have an associates degree and graduated from hs and college with honors all semesters i made it to the dean's list. Now im ending my bachelors for which i will be graduating in may. I know i live under my parents roof and have abide by their rules but it is to much of rules. I have my own job which i make around 1400 monthly pay for my transportation and anything i need. By the end of this year i should be starting a career in law enforcement. I know its hard to believe but i have a lot of friend but dont go out at all this was until i had my first bf last December and he took me out on dates which had to be reduced to a weekend yes and a weekend no dates because my parents said i was going out to much ( note that im a full time worker and a student which only went out for two months) recently my boyfriend just broke up with me and my step dad came with the conclusion that it was because my mom allowed me to go out to much with him (twice a month) and this led my bf to think i was easy. What got me really mad is that my mom stood there and said nothing to defend me like he was right knowing that all my life i have been at home helping with shore and never went out even to the movies. So the thing is i would like your opinion about this situation. Im also planning to move out probably by next year because since i will have that type of job it's time for me to move on. Help!,,