cottom Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 There is this girl, she is my perfect girl, she is nice, caring, funny, decent, opposite to common-day slags and her looks are exactly what im looking for. She seems really interested in me also, she says stuff about how interesting i am etc. Problem, i met her through her friend, i saw her tagged in one of this girls photos and started talking to her...her friend likes me a lot but i have no interest in her friend. Her friend is a good friend of mine but she is one of my good mates little sister, and my best mates ex's best friend. I don't find her friend attractive and she is the most immature emotionally unstable person ever, she left her ex recently because he wouldn't pay her much attention after his parents got divorced. The girl i like says she feels guilty talking to me because her friend was interested first and it is not fair on her. What do i do? the girl i want wants me but wouldn't because her friend likes me and i have no interest in her friend.
TouchedByViolet Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 I thought you felt like giving up... jk Sadly, I think she is not actually interested. She is using her friend's interest in you as an excuse and convenient way to let you down easy. In my experience romantic interest almost always trumps a friend's feelings.
MissLY Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 I dated a guy that my good friend had a crush on. He was very into me and I was very into him. So what did I do? I explained the situation to my girlfriend and she understood and supported me. TouchedByViolet is right, when you're really into someone and they like you back, you'll find a way to be with eachother. If this girl was really into you, she would've had a talk with her friend. And if this girl and her friend were *true* friends, then her "friend" would allow her to date you. Otherwise that's just ego/jealousy, which would mean she was never her *true* friend to begin with.
ascendotum Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 (edited) I dated a guy that my good friend had a crush on. He was very into me and I was very into him. So what did I do? I explained the situation to my girlfriend and she understood and supported me. TouchedByViolet is right, when you're really into someone and they like you back, you'll find a way to be with eachother. If this girl was really into you, she would've had a talk with her friend. And if this girl and her friend were *true* friends, then her "friend" would allow her to date you. Otherwise that's just ego/jealousy, which would mean she was never her *true* friend to begin with. I agree as well, though I reckon there are plenty of people who just wont have that conversation with their best friend, if they know he/she is crazy over this other girl/guy in question. They wont risk the damage to their friendship, even if the their friend is not going to end up landing this other romantic prospect. Bros before Hoes + Chicks before Dicks type of thing. I think if this girl was crazy for the OP then she could easily have that conversation with her friend, but if she only just lukewarm for him, then she'll let it go. Plenty of other fish in the sea. Using her friend's feelings, could be just an excuse but could also be totally legit. Either one is not great for the OP. Edited February 13, 2013 by ascendotum
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