tory1012 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Okay so i'm on NC at the moment its been 3 days and i know my will contact me within the coming few days. Everytime he does i get excited only because i miss him, but i know that he doesn't want to be with me and I need to get over him. Can anybody offer any advice of how to handle the situation what to do or how to stop myself from replying. Or share experiences and how you have handled this?
na49 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Well you won't do this, but I'll suggest it because you asked. Block his number? Tell him to leave you alone? Tell him how you're feeling and that if he doesn't want a relationship with you, you can't handle friendship and need time to heal? Only you have control over whether you reply or not, my ex wanted to be friends. She told me she missed me. She wanted to talk. I drove myself nuts! I eventually had to block her number and tell her to leave me alone. I still wonder what she wanted to talk about, but if she wanted to rekindle our relationship I'd assume she would have done more. If I'm just seen as a friend to her, then I'd rather be seen as dirt because they are basically the same thing.
Author tory1012 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 Yeah I can block his number from calling me, but not from texting. I will just have to be strong and remember the reasons I am doing this! He will eventually get the message!
na49 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Well I'd suggest that blocking him from calling you. really? can't block texting? what kind of phone/service provider do you have?
ScienceGal Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 You cannot block a number on an iPhone, at least not the model I have.
Own Worst Enemy Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 And he said there would never be a time in his life when he wouldn't love to have me in it. And I said, well you never will. And he took me at my word. Be brave, tell him never to contact you again. But only if he does contact you first!
na49 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 You cannot block a number on an iPhone, at least not the model I have. I'm pretty sure if you have Verizon you can. You log into your MyVerizon account and do it through there. It's temporary for 90 days and then you have to reapply it. I don't know about other service providers though.
ScienceGal Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I have AT&T and I know I can't block a number through my phone. I see now that their Website offers a block feature, but it's $4.99 per month.
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