131313 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 We are broken up. I left because of not being able to get over cheating from 6 months ago. We are currently supposed to be no contact. I have been back and forth going back to him, leaving, going back, not being able to deal, leaving... I just texted and emailed and I hate myself for it. I feel horrible. No reply. I feel like if he gave a **** he would be moving mountains to get us through this. But he is just feeling sorry for himself. No empathy for me for his serial cheating because he stopped and I should be over it by now. Helppppppppp Please just help don't slay me I do not need tough love Probably best he isn't replying to me I just look desperate and ridiculous god how did I get so low I can't even work or shower or eat or function normally at all
aliceinthebox Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 We are broken up. I left because of not being able to get over cheating from 6 months ago. We are currently supposed to be no contact. I have been back and forth going back to him, leaving, going back, not being able to deal, leaving... I just texted and emailed and I hate myself for it. I feel horrible. No reply. I feel like if he gave a **** he would be moving mountains to get us through this. But he is just feeling sorry for himself. No empathy for me for his serial cheating because he stopped and I should be over it by now. Helppppppppp Please just help don't slay me I do not need tough love Probably best he isn't replying to me I just look desperate and ridiculous god how did I get so low I can't even work or shower or eat or function normally at all He's not worth it. Try imagining yourself in a few months with someone else that truly loves you. And if it helps imagine how regretful your ex will be when he's in relationship after relationship never finding true happiness. The best revenge you can have on a a**hole like that is to move on as quickly and as best as possible.
crashvector Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I am very sorry for your pain. If someone is willing to stoop so low as to betray you on such a deep, fundamental level, then he is not worth your grief. Sure, you will grieve losing the relationship, but you should NOT grieve losing HIM. Imagine yourself married to this @sshole...10 years down the road...you have kids together, and you catch him sleeping with the neighbor. You just dodged a bullet....keep your dignity and refuse to allow yourself to be treated like that by ANYONE.
Author 131313 Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 Thank you. I think I am mad at myself for even being in pain at all over this. I know I can do better. I feel foolish and can't wait to be out of the grief stage.
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