amtz Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I'll start by greeting everyone and hoping that every member of this awesome forum is having an easy and peaceful time.... Also I want to apologize in advance if my post is not in the right categorie but, simply as is I NEED TO VENT! Just to get things clear I'm a 26 year old male that has had long-term serious relationships... I have always ended my relationships in good responsible way... Meaning that cheating, or it isn't you its me BS has never been a factor. In fact I have been dumped more time for no reason and crazy as it is they TRY getting back with me! Such is life To the point! I started a relationship 2 months ago with a nice girl. Cant ask for more to be honest! Hard working indepent women. We get along pretty well, we discuss every now and then, but we have never disrespected each other nor have we escalated to get physical.. Sex is great cant complain about that either. Before we hooked we talked alot! We shared past experiences, during those "get to know each other" conversations she metioned something that really caught my attention! Is when she mentioned that she has never felt in love with no one ever! I mean that she has had some sort of feeling towards someone but has never felt it so strong she can call it love... To be honest I didn't get discouraged having a military background I took it more as a chalange to make her feel that sentation that we call love! Yet dought stroke my mind when she told me she had a 3 year old child. To be honest it freaked me out since it's the first time I ever dated someone with a child... And what freaked me even more was how can someone have a child yet never felt true love for someone! Having all this haunting my mind I decided to embrace the love journey one more time, after all I had nothing to loose. Time passed and she swears to feel true love. That I'm the man of her dreams, that she has never ever felt this way for someone yet doesn't call me unless I do, doesn't text me till I text her... I mean we see each other all the time.. In fact she spends more time with me rather than with her child since the kid lives with his fathers relatives but, acts this way?? I wont lie to you at first dating her caused some sort of inner fight since I wanted a fresh start with my next girl, meaning if I was going to deal with children I would like to deal with children of my own. To be honest my mind is a rollercoaster! I have never ever thought not even in my lowest low to visit a councelor.. Please help!! Has anyone experienced such emotions? I would like to keep venting! Hope to read from you all!
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