Unattached Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Okay here is my story. I started dating this guy since the beginning of January. Everything went really well between us. He used to text me everyday and usually responds to my texts within minutes. Here is the problem. Last week my ex went to his house. He didn't answer the door nor did he talk to my ex. My ex did some crazy things before and I have no idea what he was trying to accomplish by going there. I felt so embarrassed. The guy i was dating said my ex going to his house was going to the next kevel of craziness. i told him that I would understand if we he didn't talk to me any more. His response was that it would be best for a little while. Now it's been a week and I really miss him. Do I reach out to him and let him know that I miss him or give him some more time?
Author Unattached Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 I thought about getting a restraining order but its hard because we have 2 kids involved and that won't stop him from harassing other people.
RebelWithoutACause Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Okay here is my story. I started dating this guy since the beginning of January. Everything went really well between us. He used to text me everyday and usually responds to my texts within minutes. Here is the problem. Last week my ex went to his house. He didn't answer the door nor did he talk to my ex. My ex did some crazy things before and I have no idea what he was trying to accomplish by going there. I felt so embarrassed. The guy i was dating said my ex going to his house was going to the next kevel of craziness. i told him that I would understand if we he didn't talk to me any more. His response was that it would be best for a little while. Now it's been a week and I really miss him. Do I reach out to him and let him know that I miss him or give him some more time? Sounds like you've got bigger fish to fry here, I.e. dealing with that psyho ex. You should get the authorities involved. The new guy is pretty smart to stay away from the situation. Don't contact him until you have resolved things with the ex.
phineas Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Yes. How the hell did your ex find out where he lives?
Author Unattached Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 first how the hell do your ex know where the guy live and why do you date while you still not have your life in rails. still and knowing that you are having ex issues and still want to bring new people in your life is wrong. you sound like drama , and not someone to date . clean up your life before you date any person. and stop contact and tell your ex who you are dating and where he lives. if i was that guy i would break any contact for ever. no one date for drama. Yes. How the hell did your ex find out where he lives? That's a really good question because I don't know how he found out. I don't talk to my ex about anything except the kids. It has been 3 years since my split with my ex. I tried to mend things with him and be on good terms with him but I think I've put my life on hold for too long and decided not to let him dictate my life. That is why I started dating again.
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