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This is an update from a previous thread. I was supposed to meet with a guy for a first date last thursday but the date never happened. He ended up reaching out to me thursday night at 8pm saying:

 

 

Him: Hey, its looking like a late night for me. Would it be better to meet tomorrow or over the weekend?

 

Me: No worries, unfortunately tomorrow night I'm going to a concert and saturday night I'm going to an auction. Only time I'm free is during the day.

 

Him: Ok. if we don't connect saturday during the day, we will next week for sure.

 

Me: Great, sounds like a plan.

 

 

It is now tuesday. Shouldn't he be reaching out to me to follow up this week? Because if he doesn't I would just assume he's not very interested.

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This guy sounds completely lukewarm about you.

 

You had a first date scheduled for Thursday and he contacted you at 8 p.m. that night to cancel? That is beyond rude and not very impressive first date behavior.

 

Now he vaguely says you will get together "this week" without nailing down a day in advance, which he could've easily done? Expect another last minute invite or lack of plan.

 

I wouldn't follow up if I were you. If he reaches out and wants to do something and you are available and want to go, then go for it, but don't set your expectations very high for this one.

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He's the one who cancelled, so yes he should be reaching out. Like the others said, what he did was rude. And he sounds not very interested.

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