amolya Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I met this guy that I kinda like, we've only been on one date, but nothing since, partly because some personal stuff came up for him, partly because I'm studying for exams. Last time we met he said we should do something, then remembered I have exams, so I said 'yeah I'm studying but call me on Monday' (he didn't, I assume because he didn't want to bother me). Anyway, I'm getting sick of revision and would like a break, plus he's always in the back of my mind, so I'd like to call him up, but I've been debating whether I should do it before valentines day (and risk sounding desperate) or at the weekend. I know even worrying about this is totally irrational, which really bugs me..in fact I'm worrying that hes gonna go out and find another girl if i wait, because perhaps im playing it tooo cool etc. And the reason I'm scared about asking him out on v day is because ill basically be admitting to myself (and probably him) that I actually really like this guy, and therefore risk getting hurt if I get shot down... Soooo, basically any advice on what to do? (It seems to me that I'm too attached at this point and should just forget him, I'm not sure. Would just like some perspective at this point, because clearly irrationality is playing a big part in how I'm feeling.. )
Casablanca Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I'd say its probably better to ask sooner rather than later....don't want him to lose interest or meet someone else. I don't think it will matter at all, most guys probably don't think much of VDay...I had a date schedule for Thursday, VDay, didn't even realize it, but we moved it up to tomorrow the 13th because of schedule conflict. If he is interested, he won't see this as an issue, if he sees it as some issue, then he is just superficial and not worth your time.
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