onlyyours Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 So i am in a long distance relationship with someone that i badly love, i am hell so much in love with him that i cant even imagine my self without him..its been like 4 months to our relationship, and i am falling for him deeper everyday..and its driving me so crazy..i keep on missing him madly very much.. His University has started and we talk very less like only 30 minutes a day and not more than that.But it seems like he is'nt missing me that much like i am, probably because he is too much into work and busy and stuff.. And each time his status or posts on Facebooks, or anywhere, it aches my heart.. and i keep on looking at his posts and look if he has posted something new and then i assume things and think maybe in his status, he is indirectly talking about me ..maybe he is sad , maybe he is blah blah!!! and all that.. I am seriously sick of my heart, i want to throw it away, it keeps on aching hell so badly.. I swear, if he says something angrily ,i think my heart will definitely explode. I love him hell so badly..And i know that he loves me too.. But i am just missing him so much, and i get worried maybe he will forget me and stop loving me like he does, i trust him but the thing is i have always problems , i always think so negative! in like every aspect. I just want to distract my self a bit because these crazy feelings are taking over me and making me think more and more and love him and miss him hell so much more! .. i just want to be away for a bit while, i am not looking at his posts and things, i am trying to concentrate on my studies but each time i sit down to study, i get thoughts and they dont let me study.I just want to distract my self..Please give me some ideas as to what i should do to distract myself..?
cerridwen Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 I'm glad you recognize that these feelings are "crazy", which I interpret to mean "excessive". They do come across that way, which makes you sound a little obsessive and a lot unhappy. I recommend developing and taking joy in other parts of your life. I mean Who were you before you met this person? Who are you now? Who do you want to be? What did you wish you could always do? Be wicked good at darts? Cook a mean 4-course Asian fusion meal? Discuss Kandinsky and the Bauhaus movement? Bang out some rousing honky tonk on the piano? Throw yourself headlong into your life and find other things to be passionate about--namely, your self-development. Be interesting! Be curious! Be excited about doing things which are fulfilling and ultimately, make you even more attractive to your SO. Most of all, don't despair. The love sickness you feel will lessen the more you introduce balance into your life. Have fun! 1
AngrySpider Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Cerridwen.....well put. I had to like your reply because you mention Bauhaus and honky-tonk in almost the same breath.Niiiice.
cerridwen Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Cerridwen.....well put. I had to like your reply because you mention Bauhaus and honky-tonk in almost the same breath.Niiiice. Thank you, Angry! It was either that or "Ashcan and jazz flute." 1
AngrySpider Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Hey nothing wrong with jazz flute.......or just jazz in general.That music is something that I have a soft spot for,for sure. By the way,I didn't intend on making any light or showing any insensitivity to the OP here.It is certainly understandable what you're going through.It is sad and depressing to miss someone so much that it overwhelms you.I've been there.Just being able to talk to that other person is something that brightens the day.Hope you feel better really soon.
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