Bando89 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I wanted to ask for an opinion to other guys who have been through a break up. I am finally starting to switch my feelings from sadness/delusion to rage/filth, and this is very important for the healing. I wanted to ask if is it normal that I'm thinking less about her (and when I do, it doesn't feel that bad) but when I think about certain things, it hurts like hell. For example, today I cannot stop thinking about this sentence: 'her laying naked with someone.' it just breaks me... I suppose it's normal, because making love/being naked is like the ultimate form of intimity and therefore will be the last and most difficult part to remove of the break up. Anyone who wants to share his stories?
cdt76 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Brother there is no drug on the planet that can heal you from those types of thoughts. Every one of us has them. It's eating me up today thinking she is going to be getting all kinds of attention on valentines day. I hope she gets a shot of seamen in both eyes! So yeah, the rage is there! I box. It helps. I get to hit people until I can't breath anymore!
316 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 'her laying naked with someone. Oh god damn it now the images are back. I need a break from this forum...
Author Bando89 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 Yeah, my break up was on december 24th.
SharkTooth Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I think about that like for 20 seconds. Use to be an hour or so. Your brain finally says enough of that crap, let's move on to more productive, fun, happy thoughts. I was driving today and thought about that with a couple of other things and was surprised how quickly they disappeared. Then again, it was a good day!
stevie_23 Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 UGH, December 24? Christmas Eve? That SUCKS, man. My breakup was December 6. I remember the day. I didn't even know I'd been dumped yet.
newsbug Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 My breakup was just yesterday, the 11th, but it's also my mom's birthday and I'm wondering if this has scarred her bday forever with me? I'm already at that so freakin angry stage and I keep picturing him with another girl and it makes me physically ill wondering how I could have been so stupid. I guess it's part of the process. I just wish there was some kind of a pill that I could take and all of these horrible feelings will be gone and I can go back to just happy. Or numb would be nice too.
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