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So i have seen a lot of relationships on her which ended because the Dumpee got too clingy so the dumper ended it. And from what i see the best thing for the dumpee to do is to got NO Contact because if they contact the dumper it just reinforces the fact that they are still clingy and have ot changed.

 

But what if the Dumper ended it because the dumpee was being distant or had been distant. is going no contact is the correct move by the Dumpee or will contact after the break up get less scrutiny because they are no longer showing their distance?

 

i hope what i have written makes sense

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Does it matter? You go NC to get over the person and move on with your life. Who cares what they think?

 

If they broke up with you and aren't willing to work on things, then it doesn't matter if they know you changed or not.

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Does it matter? You go NC to get over the person and move on with your life. Who cares what they think?

 

If they broke up with you and aren't willing to work on things, then it doesn't matter if they know you changed or not.

 

what if you are willing to work on things?

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