VibrantThang Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Hello. I don't really know if I need to go further than the title of this post, but I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex, and now she is claiming to be pregnant. We do not know if she is lying (bc she knows about me) or if she is telling the truth, but as a result my boyfriend had to admit to cheating. I am totally devastated, needless to say. We have been together 8 months and he says he cheated in Nov 12 (3 months ago) and of course she is claiming to be 3 months pregnant. He says she could be lying and that he is waiting to find out if it is true, but one thing that does hold true is he cheated. I am praying this girl is not pregnant and she is lying bc that is the only chance my guy and I have. He says he wants to be with me and will not be with her regardless if I stay with him or leave. But I really won't know what to do until I find out if all of this is true. Please help! My heart is beyond broken.
CarrieT Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 How old are all of you? With only an 8-month relationship, you are lucky you are not married to him. Are you prepared to invest a lifetime in helping this man raise another woman's child? (This is assuming you two are in it for the long run, get married, have kids of your own, and he has partial custody of his offspring with her). Also, are you prepared to spend your life with someone who has lied and cheated on you? It doesn't matter if she is pregnant or not. He has cheated; what kind of boyfriend does that make him?
Njeanne Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Wether she is telling the truth or not about being pregnant, do not forget he cheated on you with his ex... If you got no problem with her being pregnant, because your bf chooses you, please remember the fact he did this too you and might still go to her behind your back. Promise to not get hurt more then you are already. *gives big hug*
will1988 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I would run now OP. Your boy friend cheated and possibly knocked up another woman. In now way is this your responsibilty. Your boy friend is a cheater. He has done it with one girl, who knows how many more he will cheat on you with? Also, do you honestly want to play step mother to a child that isn't yours, that was brought about in your boy friend's affair? do you honestly want to be with a man who cheats on you, especially after such a short relationship? I'd get as far away from him and his drama as humanly possible. Run away do not walk! That is my advice.
veggirl Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 So he fked another woman without a condom and only now confessed cause he had to. You could have an std. Dump this loser. Think about his dick in her, bare, him finding orgasmic release with her and coming in her. Sick. Dump him. I wonder how many times he fked her. And why he didnt even use protection.
HKcolon Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Eight months old, and already so much stench in this relationship? Time to take this relationship out to the trash, don't you agree?
Author VibrantThang Posted February 19, 2013 Author Posted February 19, 2013 Thought you all might like to know that I left him. I had no choice. Do I love him? Yes. But even through so much pain, I knew what I had to do. Normally I fight for mine, but I really had nothing to fight for as the situation made the decision for me. Believe me I am hurting like hell, I have never been apart of such foolery. He keeps calling and texting but I know if I stayed he would probably literally be the death of me. My little heart can't hand the stress. Good luck to anyone going through it. Believe in yourself. Thank you all for submitting your opinions. 1
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