Rinaaa Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 (edited) My boyfriend and I broke up, at least I think we did? We got into a huge fight Sunday night that continued into Monday morning. It was over a petty issue, but just escalated and escalated. The last time I talked to him he hung up on me as I was crying my eyes out on the phone to him and in my emotional state I proceeded to call over and over and text over and over alas to no response. I was initially supposed to come over so we could talk and in my state of mind after he hung up decided that it was a brilliant idea to go over there nonetheless because talking in person would make everything SO MUCH BETTER (eek, seriously repulsed by myself and shuddering as I'm typing this). Needless to say, it did not go over very well at all. He texted me before I got there saying he couldn't take our fighting anymore, he had to draw a line, he still loved me, and that I would be okay. When I got to his house his friends who were over were VERY rude and disrespectful to me (i.e. "stupid b****, take your a** home, etc.) and they proceeded to bash me on social media after the fact (subliminally at least) and I left and haven't bothered contacting him since and he hasn't contacted me either. He deleted my best friend from social media after she made comments to me about how we should go barhopping, but has still kept me on and all of our pictures up. I've been doing my best to make it seem like I'm happy and doing fine, ESPECIALLY after the craziness I pulled when we were still in contact (though for the sake of my ego I'll define those moments as being passionate and showing I love and care). Anyway, I am just beyond confused. I should mention they were all on recreational drugs when all of this happened and I've never been treated this way before, so I don't know if he's acting like this because of drugs or because it's really over and his true colors are showing. His friends made a comment on social media about how we're not together, but he's kept me in the dark. I'm not sure if it's over for him or if he needs a few days to think about things, wow such a mess. I'm heartbroken and don't know what to do. I mean there's the obvious, busying myself, going out, etc. I'm in school, interning, applying for grad school, working, and my friends will definitely be dragging me out for the rest of this week, but I'm not sure if I should give him a few days and try reaching out to him again? Assuming that's a bad idea but at the same time we WERE in a relationship and things were getting more and more serious so it's killing me that I have to sit here and act like I don't care and can't call him and whatnot. Or should I just let it be? Wait for him to contact me? Move on if he doesn't? It's extremely difficult right now and not as clear to me as it may be to some of you, so all advice would be GREATLY appreciated. Edited February 12, 2013 by Rinaaa
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