reb Posted August 30, 2004 Posted August 30, 2004 How important is it to most people to be pleased by your S.O. in the bedroom? If you are not getting pleased and most of the time all he thinks about is his getting off, ( like he doesn't take the time for more than 5 min's of foreplay) would you end the relationship? We have talked about this and we have small fights about it and yet nothing changes.
Papillon Posted August 30, 2004 Posted August 30, 2004 I am of the firm belief that people should be sexually compatible. If a woman did not physically attract me, yet captivated me with her intelligence and wonderful personality, I would want to f*** her brains out, as a consequence. If she hated sex, then that would be a huge frustration, and frankly I would lose interest in persuing a relationship, and instead cherish the friendship, but look for someone who was more "average". Extremes are not nice, and a chore to deal with. If one partner is selfish in bed, then it's a big issue, and I would raise it, and if it cannot be resolved, move on. Why be with someone who does not satiate your body and desires, the most important part of you?
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