irc333 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I met a woman on OK Cupid, she said she rarely goes to the site, and we pretty much spent little time online getting to know each other, and went straight for the phone. She's not entirely technologically saavy, kind of old-fashioned, doesn't have cable. (nothing wrong with this at all by the way). By the way, drop dead gorgeous, she's a nurse at an elderly care facility, and she used to be a model. I thought I was being punked....yes, I did see her pictures online, but her pictures didn't do her any justice (I told her that). And get this, she didn't remember what I looked like before meeting me, she just she thought I was "smart" and "nice", and that was pretty much enough for her to meet me for dinner. She has a VERY short list of expectations, as opposed to the long, silly list most women have when looking for a man. I asked if she had any deal breakers, and she said "smoking, no criminal background and drugs" Duh...yeah...I know.....in person she even stated the obvious. And I'm thinking "Is that it? Can it be THIS simple? Must be a simple girl....I must've hit pay dirt. She had a great smile, even prior to meeting, I was mentioning a place we could go walking, and she said she'd like to take her dog there, but she said she'd prefer this sushi place...and that she could do that on our 2nd date. I was thinking, wow....she is already for date #2, before date #1?" Just found that interesting. Also, she'd call me "Honey" occasionally, didn't overdo it,.....but...very occasionally...just must be part of her vernacular. She said the last time she had ever did online dating was 4 years ago, and she's just tried it now, and she goes, "Why, do I look new to online dating? and smiled. This could be another topic, but most of my dates with women online, where they'd had no problem meeting with me, sometimes quickly, were with women who are: 1. NEW to online dating 2. If I'm the FIRST to email them. Basically, striking while the IRON is HOT, before they get jaded by the men BEFORE me. Ever notice that, too? Anyhow, was just wondering by what happened so far, things went pretty good....I'm just waiting for the other shoe to fall. She liked the fact that I was smart, that I knew computers, and she was like "Hey, maybe you can come to my place and teach me how to use my new laptop" and smiled. I dunno, somene's gotta be punkin me, man. lol
Author irc333 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 ....oh forgot the most baffling thing.....she said with the field she currently works in, looks aren't all that important to her, because we all get old and our physical flaws go down hill anyhow. 1
MsSmurf Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 ....oh forgot the most baffling thing.....she said with the field she currently works in, looks aren't all that important to her, because we all get old and our physical flaws go down hill anyhow. Lol this is so true and one of the reasons I don't obsess about looks either. Looks are a nice bonus, but certainly not everything. Sounds like you met a great gal so enjoy it.
Radu Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 (edited) JACKPOT Seriously irc, i hope it works out for you. It might change the tone of your threads around here. PS: So i should start looking at hot nurses huh ... Edited February 12, 2013 by Radu
pbjbear Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 (edited) ....oh forgot the most baffling thing.....she said with the field she currently works in, looks aren't all that important to her, because we all get old and our physical flaws go down hill anyhow. Of course you would like this. Super hot woman with the values of an ugly sweet girl. That is every guys dream. A woman who is out of his league looks wise (because men place higher priority on looks than women...you wouldnt be starting this thread if everything about this person was the same except she was average looking and not a model...) but doesnt know it so she wont be high maintainence Dont put her on a pedestal though, seriously. Everyone has flaws...Im sure she has some just give it some time and get to know her. I was not jaded when I first did OLD...now I am. So youre right about that. It took me dating at least 5 guys on there before I realized most men on there are shallow and disrespectful in general and never satisfied with one woman as long as they have tons to choose from. (and I was picky about who I met up with too...). I still have yet to meet a guy whose first complaint about OLD isnt "there are no goodlooking women" Edited February 12, 2013 by pbjbear
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