fin-eng Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I met this girl a year ago at a party of a mutual friend. I liked her immediately and ask her for coffee. We talked for hours, and it turns out that we have many interests in common, we like the same books and same movies, etc. But just when I thought I got the royal flush in life, she told me that she was moving to another city across the country in a week to attend a very prestigious university. We said our goodbyes, and i forgot about her until on new years day when she texted me wishing me a happy new year. Since then we have been texting each other nearly everyday. When we didn't contact each other for a day or three, she would always text me asking how I am doing. She responses to my texts very quickly. And I am usually the last person she texts before she sleeps. And she told me she is taking a history class on my birth country. I am about to graduate from university in May, and she has been asking me to find a job and move to her city. It seems that she is very interested in me. But a few hours ago when I asked her address so I can send her a valentine's day present, she texted back saying "Christmas is over My birthday is not for 2 months No no no!" What the hell does that mean? Does this mean she is not interested in me and just wants to be friends?
FitChick Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 At the moment you are just friends so a present would be awkward. Send her a Valentine's email or similar instead.
Mrlonelyone Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 If you hadn't asked her permission to give a gift I would say take a chance on giving an inexpensive gift. She certainly wants to be friends. She may want to have more at some point, but valentines day is sort of an established couples holiday. If you want to send more than email or text try sending an Ecard. If they graciously accept it then you have some hope.
HitMeNow Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 If you haven't slept with her you re just her txt buddy.
sid3 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 If you haven't slept with her you re just her txt buddy. Not so sure about the " if you haven't slept with already" but I do agree you're her text buddy. It seems to me at least, the friendzone is where you've been placed.
ArranHerry Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Well, on the basis of the text she send you, it doesn't seem that she is not interested in you. She's already interested in you and she likes you but it may possible that she need some time to understand her own feeling.
Lani Posted April 4, 2013 Posted April 4, 2013 Pretty sure this is an old thread guys... Not just extremely premature. 1
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