OCCDAVE Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Well today marks a full year of nc and I have mixed feelings .after my ex wife broke the news she cheated I did the while crying,begging ,showing up at her house just real dumb things .A year ago yesterday I broke nc which I seem to do alot this time we had a convo that till this day sticks with me Me-dont you feel bad for what you did Her-feel bad ha I did what I did while we were married so how's that Her-just for the record I'm preg I won't lie I thought she was pushing buttons but later I did fb snooping she was Infact preg .I also found out she got married all this happen withen 10 months of our break up.I still miss her sometimes but not as much as a year ago.Ive talked to many girls even tried dating around but no luck.tbh I think even if this sounds crazy ill always miss her but sometimes people are just not meant to stay in your life .Considering how fast she moved on god knows how long she was playing both sides .Eh i got along way to go.Still have bit of regret but mostly anger.Ithink I'd say I'm about 60% healed
coltsfan1 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Dave, this other guy is NOT the winner!!! Just from this post she cheated while you were married AND has NO remorse about it. It might be hard to believe but you dodged a bullet. She is a cold, callus, spiteful person!! Her being married now means 1 of 2 things, either she was already committed to this guy while you were married, or she is just knock up and got married thinking that would solve all her current problems. Only she knows if she is truly happy, you should be doing cartwheels and jumping for joy!! Better him than you my friend, good chance he will wake up in the same shoes you wore only he can't NC her. He has a kids with the gutless slag!!! 2
hopefullove Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Yeah. Your ex sounds like a sociopath seriously. She has no business being married and being committed to someone. I understand how you can still miss someone after they pain and hurt they have caused but this chick is like Maury still drama. You are NOT the father. The fact that she has no remorse for cheating on you, there is something psychologically wrong with that. Yes agreed that you dodged a bullet! imagine of you had a kid with her!!! How messes up would that be! You deserve way more! 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 14, 2013 Author Posted February 14, 2013 Tell me about and make matters worse a week before she dropped the bomb on me we discussed having a baby .Now if that isn't the sick minded I dunno what is.I already had one nervous breakdown I can't go back to that mindset.I won't lie felt like I've been drifting back into the hole.Im gonna go out this weekend or hit the gym just try to stay busy sigh
hopefullove Posted February 15, 2013 Posted February 15, 2013 Dude you are so much better than that. Write down how she treats u when u are of clear enough mind to see things clearly and read it back when you are mopey. Be as honest as u can cus I bet when u are weak u will be like... Sniff sniff... But u read what strong you wrote... And don't forget it. U deserve respect and she doesn't respect you, herself, or anyone else. Do you not think U deserve better. 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted February 16, 2013 Author Posted February 16, 2013 I do write down how's she's treated me and handle this whole break up .When I compare the good with the bad I hate to say it but bad over powers it.Ill keep taking it a day at a time and keep talking to other girls .Sooner or later ill rise about this.Thanks again everyone Btw hope karma doesn't kick her but heh
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