Should I stay or should I go

[YourFavouriteWeapon]

So I've been dating my g/f for 4 years. We went on a break for 2 months during our first semester of university together because she wasn't feeling the physical attraction. The break brought that back and we got back together right after 2 months at the beginning of our Winter break for school. Everything has been really good between us, but I second guess and overanalyze everything. We spend less time together as she has new roommates and wants to get to know them. I see her 2-3 times a week, but it's never for as two hours. In her eyes, I know she is happy with how the relationship is going, but I am not (she has no clue). I love her to death and see her as being the girl I spend the rest of my life with. She does too, but I am also her first love and she has told me before that she can't imagine her life without me, but is worried that since she has never been with anyone else, that she doesn't really know if we will last forever. This makes me mad because I think I should be good enough for her to know that I am the one for her. If she was my first love, I wouldn't have ever thought twice about ever being with anyone else. Since we have gotten back together, I feel as if I am giving more than she is. I wish I could just go, but the thought of her being with anyone else kills me, and I know this means that I still have strong feelings for her. I also do feel like I make myself too available though. I won't leave because I know that I have something special with her that I will never have with anyone else. If anyone could help me out with this I would really appreciate it. If you need any clarification, let me know.

[animalover]

So I've been dating my g/f for 4 years. We went on a break for 2 months during our first semester of university together because she wasn't feeling the physical attraction. The break brought that back and we got back together right after 2 months at the beginning of our Winter break for school. Everything has been really good between us, but I second guess and overanalyze everything. We spend less time together as she has new roommates and wants to get to know them. I see her 2-3 times a week, but it's never for as two hours. In her eyes, I know she is happy with how the relationship is going, but I am not (she has no clue). I love her to death and see her as being the girl I spend the rest of my life with. She does too, but I am also her first love and she has told me before that she can't imagine her life without me, but is worried that since she has never been with anyone else, that she doesn't really know if we will last forever. This makes me mad because I think I should be good enough for her to know that I am the one for her. If she was my first love, I wouldn't have ever thought twice about ever being with anyone else. Since we have gotten back together, I feel as if I am giving more than she is. I wish I could just go, but the thought of her being with anyone else kills me, and I know this means that I still have strong feelings for her. I also do feel like I make myself too available though. I won't leave because I know that I have something special with her that I will never have with anyone else. If anyone could help me out with this I would really appreciate it. If you need any clarification, let me know.

 

Ufff... well first at all... nice call to the The Clash song! (amazing song by the way).

I am afraid I am a bearer of bad news... if your girlfriend feels she has not experienced enough in her life you are in trouble because she will either break with you have that experience or just go for the experience without you noticing (cheating). I may be wrong as I don't know your girlfriend at all but reading your post I am afraid you are far more invested than she is in the relationship!