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Aint too evolved not to be bitter are you?

 

Being realistic does not equal bitterness.

 

The number of men I meet who expect a woman to be hotter than him astounds me. Pretty much all of my male friends want a girlfriend who is much hotter than them and theyll freely admit this

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Well you know, it's always the mans fault. Yes I know women are better than us. Men are pieces of ****. Even if feminism backfires it's still men's fault. Let's try not to hijack the thread here though.

 

Not always the man's fault. But society does dictate its okay for men to be more selfish than women. Id prefer a 50/50 relationship but that seems too much to ask for nowadays

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LOLOLOLOL

Of course youd like that! Its every guys dream...a girl who gives a guy money and sex. Feminism has really benefited men more than women sometimes.

 

Hey I get sex without really committing PLUS I dont have to pay anymore! Guys have it so good nowadays

It isn't every guys dream. Not every guy is the same. Some guys can behave like rude pigs and get whatever they want while other guys couldn't get sex even when they do everything right.

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Women have got to stop giving some guys a free pass for this behavior. These guys would have to change if no one let them get away with it.

 

I dont give them a free pass and you should hear some of the things that have been said to me over it.

 

Society says its okay for men to act like this and most women are too emotionally weak to stand up for themselves, so it is what it is...

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Being realistic does not equal bitterness.

 

The number of men I meet who expect a woman to be hotter than him astounds me. Pretty much all of my male friends want a girlfriend who is much hotter than them and theyll freely admit this

Then maybe if your attitude was different youd meet better men. Tbh, Id be very very cautious about trying to date someone who ever thought the way you did. It would seem problematic. You dont think guys you meet sense that and avoid it?

 

Either way, plenty of guys date women in their league or below their supposed league. My gfs have always been in my league Id say...and Ive been attracted to women my friends think I can do better than. But I like who I like...and plenty of guys just want a sexy chick they click with.

 

We dont need someone whos a dang model...but at the end of the day, guys like me who take care of ourselves know our value. Im not looking for a drop dead stunner model of a girlfriend. Just someones whos active and in shape. This applies to many men.

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I dont give them a free pass and you should hear some of the things that have been said to me over it.

 

Society says its okay for men to act like this and most women are too emotionally weak to stand up for themselves, so it is what it is...

What's so unfortunate is that some of the women they dated before you did give them a free pass. Even more unfortunately these men are agressive and pushy and can be experts at crowding out a non agressive guy. I don't know what to say other than to outright reject them.

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Not always the man's fault. But society does dictate its okay for men to be more selfish than women. Id prefer a 50/50 relationship but that seems too much to ask for nowadays

The 50/50 men are out there, but you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find him.

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