mranoyn Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 ok so me and my ex broke up a month ago. together over a year. she broke up with me. said i was too clingy, she saw me the next day to get our stuff back and was crying and was saying she just needed space. by the end of the day she was sayin she loved me again and that she was my girlfriend. we had some rocky fights or arguements since then. usually just about seeing eachother, she would back out, but she always wanted to be a hermit during the winter. always start to get back on track but argue. but up till today she still says she loves and wants to be with me, but just needs time to fix her own issues.. she has been posting things on tumblr and instagram and facebook about getting back together, pictures of us, or stuff related to being with me, or how she has only feelings for me but isnt in any time of condition for a relationship. Went as far to go and post how she needs me, i bring happiness, and cant go without me, just emotional wreck. Even yesterday i went no contact for like five hours before i had upwards of a hundred texts phone calls and emails, non stop, i had to contact her back. we went through some life changing events that has caused her depression and anxiety. today i saw her and we held hand exchanged valentine gifts and hugged and kiss and expressed love. she was sayin how nice it was and she cant wait for more times like that. that she has been needing that. We still talk 24 7. and talk about planning a future. is she just toying with me? should i just go complete no contact, or could it just be actual issues. any insight would help, of course every situation is different.
KoKo0 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I don't she has a clue about what she wants, either she wants IN or OUT. There is no in-between. You need to let her sort he stuff together, and it is best that you don't contact her or respond to her calls.
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