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LeeLo,

 

Wow I can totally identify with you. I've told her things too like "I'm too young," "we should see what's out there," etc. And every time I'd pull away, she never wavered, always backing me and telling me we would be ok.

 

It's stories like yours that scare me and make me think I'm letting go of something amazing. :/

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At the same time, I know she loved me so much, and I'm afraid that I am the only person that could make her the happiest. Any thoughts?

It's ok. She'll find someone else and love them as much as she ever loved you, so you needn't worry.

 

Oh: and within a few weeks, she'll have that person, too, convinced that they are selfish, insensitive and inconsiderate.

 

You got lucky, getting out.

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Hey guys, posting an update. We've been no contact for about two weeks now. I was feeling a little low the other a day and gave her a call (weak sauce, i know). Anyway, looks like she's blocked my number, and probably email address too, so short of going to her house there's really no way to reach her. She is friends with all of her ex-girlfriends so that gives me hope that one day we can be on good terms (even if it's a couple years from now).

 

Sometimes I feel waves of sadness (thankfully, my anti-anxiety meds help me with that). Other times I just feel numb. I know it'll take time for me to stop feeling pain, but I know I will always love her.

 

If you're in a relationship with someone who treats you right and makes you feel like you're the only guy/girl in the world, HANG ON TO THEM! DON'T TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED! If you keep pushing away, eventually they will have no choice but to leave. Please learn from my mistakes, guys. Take care

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Hey Loveshax - just wondering how you're doing lately?

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