bluefairy812 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 ...somewhat. i had the unfortunate luck of bumping into his sister at a restaurant. it was the first time we saw each other since the break up. she saw me and decided to get my attention. we exchanged a few words (hello, how are you? how's everyone? nice to see you). it was a little awkward and yes i did feel a little sad for a bit, but i got over it. around 1:30am, I get an e-mail from my ex with the words: "please be my friend." nothing else. my thoughts: WTF? was he drunk? the good news: i didn't freak out. i felt more of a WTF feeling rather than OMG OMG he contacted me. when i really think about things, i don't know if i would want to go back. i have come a long way to be where i am and i simply REFUSE to go back to all the pain i felt. i have absolute no interest in responding to that email nor being his friend at this point in time. maybe in the future... again, same words i have told him before. a little background: we haven't spoken in 4 months. broken up for 7 months. he has asked over and over and over and OVER again to be friends and i refuse. any who, i had to let this out, it feels good to know i have improved at this point, however, it does piss me off he wrote to me.
iouaname Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Out of curiosity - who ended things? And why? I'm in a similar situation in that my ex wants to keep me in his life for some reason, despite not wanting to be with me. At least you're not letting this set you back!
Author bluefairy812 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 i ended it and then went back a week later, he then told me he couldn't go back and that it's not meant to be, he hasn't felt the same about me in over a year, etc. so, he basically used me to break up with him for him to get out of a relationship that he couldn't end,
Author bluefairy812 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 he has a girlfriend, so a "friendship" with him wouldn't make sense.
soccerrprp Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 (edited) he has a girlfriend, so a "friendship" with him wouldn't make sense. ...but if he were single, it would????? So, is it that YOU are not looking for "friendship," rather, more? Edited February 12, 2013 by soccerrprp
Author bluefairy812 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 ...but if he were single, it would????? So, is it that YOU are not looking for "friendship," rather, more? not at all. when he was single, he asked to be friends and i said no. the point is that i don't want to know anything about him. no contact has been the only way of me healing. he just doesn't get it.
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