Derpderpleton Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I'm about 2 and a half weeks removed from my BU. I didn't stick to NC right away, I even hung out with my ex a few times. We last hung out just over a week ago, and things actually were pretty nice. Then, once the week started, it was like a switch had been flipped. She suddenly wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. She was the one that wanted to stay 'friends', but now all of the sudden she's acting like she's mad at me when she has absolutely NO right to be mad. I'm the one that should be mad. At work, she won't even look at me anymore, she just kind of ducks her head and tries to avoid me. I see her all over social media, giving her number out to other guys, making herself look desperate, so I'm sure that's playing a roll in why she's doing this, but, why does she have to act like she's upset with me? It's like she was just looking for a reason to do this, I swear. She was just looking for a reason to distance herself from me even further so she can be free of guilt while she's 'talking' to other guys. This put the nail in the coffin for me. I'm not really at the sad stage anymore, I'm just pissed off now. I want to make her regret everything she's done to me. Anyways, anyone else experience something similar? I know, it was my fault for trying to be 'friends' with her, but, really. I just don't get how you can all of the sudden flip a switch and not give a single f*ck about someone who's been nothing but good to you. So f*cking pissed and fed up with her right now.
hopefullove Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 You don't want to be friends with her. Only be friends with her when you have absolutely no feelings for her anymore, then you reevaluate if you really want a friendship. My ex is a commitment phobe and I'm so angry at him. I get it. Why move in with me, integrate me within your family, make plans for a future, tell me you love me more and more each day, that all we need is love and everything will work out and then bam. A switch. Treat me like garbage. He scoured the dating sites right away. You know what he wrote "just got out of a long term relationship, I'm on here to hopefully find something better" do you know how much that hurts. I brought it up to him and all he did was laugh. Then later be said, think what you want. He said he doesnt go on those sites anymore. I am an amazing person and he wants to find better go ahead. They do not deserve us. 1
lovelifexx Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 My ex did the same thing. Kept in contact for the first week and acted like my friend, and now he avoids me like the plague. But he is not acting like he is angry at me. I think he just wants to move on and this is the best way to do it. I know he was hurting too. He is not out trying to hook up. Not yet at least.
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