anp1005 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Recently I noticed that my bf turned his Facebook chat back on (the bar at the bottom right of the screen that tells you everyone that is currently online and you can start an IM type chat with them) after having it turned off for several months. We used to chat on it but we both turned it off because we stopped. Last week I noticed that it was turned back on and I asked him why. He said because he accidentally turned it on and that he "cleared it off" which he said meant that he turned it off. (I think he just minimized the box, which makes it go away, but doesn't turn it off). So he says that he thought he turned it off, but he guesssed it was still on if I saw it on there. We then get in a huge fight about it and he claims that he accidentally turned it on in the first place and that he must have "accidentally turned it off and back on again". This doesn't make any sense and is a strange lie because he even admitted that he thought he turned it off, but I saw that it was still on. So why make up the story about "accidentally" turning it off and back on again if he might have just never turned it off in the first place and thought he did?
Drseussgrrl Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Oh jesus. Reread this back to yourself. So incredibly ridiculous. 8
SJC2008 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Who's he chatting with? I hope he's not selling gov't secrets to a Russian spy. If you can't stay away from pointless drama over facebook, delete the mudda fkkin account!
sillyanswer Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Yes... but what of it and why is it important?
Fondue Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I don't often say this, but it must done. Holy ****, dude! You're crazy!
RebelWithoutACause Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 This doesn't make any sense It really doesn't... I think I need a drink now
sillyanswer Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Is this the same guy you were getting into conniptions about regarding Facebook back in October last year?
Fondue Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Is this the same guy you were getting into conniptions about regarding Facebook back in October last year? Facebook is srs bzns.
ASG Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Wow... This is some serious ****! I have 2 questions... 1- you know that you can still use the chat even if it's turned off, right? It's called private message. It still works, even if you're not "online" on chat.. 2- You also so know that for you to be able to see that he is online... then you also have to be online, right? Some people just can't live without drama...
weee111 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 You skipped the part where you explain why it even matters that his facebook chat is turned on.... 1
e40 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 It's easy to turn on by accident. Why does it matter if it's on or off?
nineways09 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Why are you guys fighting over this? Why even have facebook in the first place? You'll see that all you find is people who let you down. lol
AH1990 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I think i'm missing something here. Where is the part about you installing a GPS in his vehicle and sitting outside his bedroom window to watch him sleep and make sure he doesn't leave. Or maybe where you go through his closet and find a new shirt and scream "WHO BOUGHT YOU THIS AND WHEN!!!!!??????" You must be doing something right (great at oral etc), cause there is no way in hell I'd stay with you after you made a fight about this.
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 You have to be f.... kidding me!!!
Author anp1005 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 You skipped the part where you explain why it even matters that his facebook chat is turned on.... I'm just worried that he's talking to someone else I guess. I realize that doesn't make sense because you can only talk to people on your friend's list, but I'm paranoid...
Author anp1005 Posted February 12, 2013 Author Posted February 12, 2013 It's easy to turn on by accident. Why does it matter if it's on or off? It's actually not...its easy to turn on, just one click. But to turn it off you have to open the side bar and find the option to turn it off. It just seems like a really stupid lie.
Estate Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Recently I noticed that my bf turned his Facebook chat back on (the bar at the bottom right of the screen that tells you everyone that is currently online and you can start an IM type chat with them) after having it turned off for several months. We used to chat on it but we both turned it off because we stopped. Last week I noticed that it was turned back on and I asked him why. He said because he accidentally turned it on and that he "cleared it off" which he said meant that he turned it off. (I think he just minimized the box, which makes it go away, but doesn't turn it off). So he says that he thought he turned it off, but he guesssed it was still on if I saw it on there. We then get in a huge fight about it and he claims that he accidentally turned it on in the first place and that he must have "accidentally turned it off and back on again". This doesn't make any sense and is a strange lie because he even admitted that he thought he turned it off, but I saw that it was still on. So why make up the story about "accidentally" turning it off and back on again if he might have just never turned it off in the first place and thought he did? You cannot be serious? A huge fight because your BF turned on FB chat by accident? Seriously, if you're that upset by it, breakup with him, let him be with someone more rational. Who cares?!?!?!?!?!?
jcrew11 Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I'm just worried that he's talking to someone else I guess. I realize that doesn't make sense because you can only talk to people on your friend's list, but I'm paranoid... I think he is talking to other girls, and he is trying to cheat on you. That is the only explanation that I can think of for all his lying. I would dump him because he's untrustworthy.
Estate Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I think he is talking to other girls, and he is trying to cheat on you. That is the only explanation that I can think of for all his lying. I would dump him because he's untrustworthy. Give it a break... I turn on and off chat when ever I like, half the time I don't want to be bothered when I'm online and turn it off. Occasionally I might want to talk to someone, a friend (male or female), family, or whatever and I don't always remember to turn it off the second I'm done. Seriously... the amount of paranoia here is INSANE!!!!! You'd dump your boyfriend because his FB chat was on??? And even if he DID chat to a girl... so what? Are you THAT obsessive?????? Holy crap, I hope I never meet girls like you in real life... this is just absolutely insane.
CautionaryTale Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Recently I noticed that my bf turned his Facebook chat back on (the bar at the bottom right of the screen that tells you everyone that is currently online and you can start an IM type chat with them) after having it turned off for several months. We used to chat on it but we both turned it off because we stopped. Last week I noticed that it was turned back on and I asked him why. He said because he accidentally turned it on and that he "cleared it off" which he said meant that he turned it off. (I think he just minimized the box, which makes it go away, but doesn't turn it off). So he says that he thought he turned it off, but he guesssed it was still on if I saw it on there. We then get in a huge fight about it and he claims that he accidentally turned it on in the first place and that he must have "accidentally turned it off and back on again". This doesn't make any sense and is a strange lie because he even admitted that he thought he turned it off, but I saw that it was still on. So why make up the story about "accidentally" turning it off and back on again if he might have just never turned it off in the first place and thought he did? If this is the extent of your relationship issues, you're a lucky, lucky gal. Now turn down the inner "Psycho" just a tad and everything will be ok. Deep, deep breaths. No offense, we all have an inner psycho, we just need to know when to turn it down. It's time.
pteromom Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 I'm just worried that he's talking to someone else I guess. I realize that doesn't make sense because you can only talk to people on your friend's list, but I'm paranoid... Why worry about something silly like that? He's either trustworthy or he isn't, and if he isn't, no amount of trying to control him into being trustworthy will turn him that way. But if you keep focusing on monitoring and controlling him out of fear, you WILL kill your relationship. Nobody enjoys being in prison for long.
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