almosteverythingx Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 It's been two months now. we lived together. He has broken n/c every time we have discussed not contacting. Longest he has gone now is 7 days and then went and broke it today. We agreed before this that we wouldn't talk for three week and give one another space... but then yet again 7 days later he ends up making conversation with me. Why can't he just leave me alone?
mammasita Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 If you are responding, then stop. He'll only continue if you are feeding into it. Why don't you have his phone number/email blocked?
Author almosteverythingx Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 I did ignore him last time it happened, he broke it ater 4 days then kept bombarding me with text messages and one was about his grandad passing away so I obviously replied, then i spoke to him afterwards about the fact we had agreed not to speak and that I didn't owe him anything as he dumped me. He said he realises he had been an idiot and agreed to not talk to me.... then here we go again. I sent him a short reply back, with no questions. I kinda wish I hadn't now....
Simon Phoenix Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Stop feeding him with responses. NC is what you need to do. Him talking to you doesn't break your NC. You responding does.
mammasita Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Stop responding. Block his number. If his number is blocked you won't know if hes bombarding you with messages!!
Author almosteverythingx Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 Ok ok guys I will ignore! Does anyone have any idea why he might be behaving in this way? feeding the ego?
Loveshax Posted February 12, 2013 Posted February 12, 2013 Having just dumped someone recently, I think there are two possible reasons he is still contacting you 1)yes, to feed his ego 2)because he misses you
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