F.R.E.D Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 Hello again Loveshack as you can see i have a problem whick i can't resolve by myself so i requesting a help from loveshack community. I meet this girl at my school she's a classmate of my friend (childhood friend) the girl that i had a crush dated with a guy who was acquaintines with me. On friday i heard from a childhood friend that she broke up with that guy so i though that maybe it's my chance and i didn't want that my chances would slip away i came over her we chatted a little and asked for her number she of course gave it to me, on the next day i texted her asking her is she avalaible and if she wants to meet up with me and hang out.. Well she was sick so she couldn't go i texted her for 5 days she always put a smiley at the end of her text and she wanted to tell me her personal stuff so i though that she likes me on friday i asked her if she wants to hang out and again she decline'd saying that her friend is coming over her house and etc.. i was little pissed of but in front of her i acted normal, on saturday her classmate is calling me who i mentioned as "childhood friend" she told me that the girl i have a crush thinks that i'm an *******.. I can't understand this.. I appreciate any help..
Author F.R.E.D Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 Can anybody help me..? i'm frustrated..
AMusing Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Hi, I think you aren't getting any replies because your story is very hard to understand. Let me see if I have it straight: You have a crush on a girl, who just broke up with her boyfriend. After finding out she's single again, you started talking to her via text and asked her out twice within a one-week period. Both times she said she couldn't (once because she was sick, again because she already had plans). Now you find out she thinks you're an *******. Am I getting the details right? What are you wanting advice about? What to do about the girl? Nothing. She doesn't like you; move on.Why she doesn't like you? Nobody on here could tell you; we might guess, but it really won't help anything. Ask yourself why she might have a bad impression of you, and if you think there's a valid reason, work on improving yourself. Why she texted you back so many times? Maybe she thought you were just being friendly. Maybe she was lonely after breaking up, and your attention made her feel better. Maybe she was just being polite. Again, there's no way we could know. Sorry I can't offer more advice, but I don't have much to go on.
Author F.R.E.D Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 (edited) Hi, I think you aren't getting any replies because your story is very hard to understand. Let me see if I have it straight: You have a crush on a girl, who just broke up with her boyfriend. After finding out she's single again, you started talking to her via text and asked her out twice within a one-week period. Both times she said she couldn't (once because she was sick, again because she already had plans). Now you find out she thinks you're an *******. Am I getting the details right? What are you wanting advice about? What to do about the girl? Nothing. She doesn't like you; move on.Why she doesn't like you? Nobody on here could tell you; we might guess, but it really won't help anything. Ask yourself why she might have a bad impression of you, and if you think there's a valid reason, work on improving yourself. Why she texted you back so many times? Maybe she thought you were just being friendly. Maybe she was lonely after breaking up, and your attention made her feel better. Maybe she was just being polite. Again, there's no way we could know. Sorry I can't offer more advice, but I don't have much to go on. Bingo, yeah you are getting the details but i forgot to mention.. I think she calls me an ******* for texting her and at the same time with another girl, they were hanging out at market so they both knew that i texted them.. I seriously don't understand she always via text puts a smile at the end of her text + she wanted to tell me her personal stuff and i hinted many times that i like her so why the hell she would respond to my texts? Edited February 13, 2013 by F.R.E.D
AMusing Posted February 13, 2013 Posted February 13, 2013 Ah, an extra piece to the puzzle. You likely hurt her pride/feelings by texting her and her friend simultaneously. Were you flirting with the friend too?!? If so, you kind of deserve the ******* title. Didn't you ask your childhood friend why this girl had that opinion of you? Surely she asked your crush for an explanation; I certainly would, if I overheard someone calling a friend of mine an *******.
Author F.R.E.D Posted February 13, 2013 Author Posted February 13, 2013 I only flirted with a girl who i have a crush with other chick like friends and nothing more.. + i asked her but can't remember the reason why.. I think it was "you are a playboy" or something like that, or maybe she called me an ******* because i sent her smiles for example ": *" and etc to me it sounds normal to send a girl smileys but to girls its not..
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