OSCAR_BUSTOS21 Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I value your feedback, so thanks in advance.Since dumping my gf on boxing day out of pure paranoia I have been in deep regret. After initially asking her to come back I have collected my thoughts and have consulted much advice on the subject. This girl means everything to me and I must change in order to accomodate her. I have trust and control issues that I believe I'm working on. Since the split we have been intimate and seen each other several times, had constant contact etc. Last weekend she sent me a link for a house that she wanted stating in the long run would be ours. She has asked me out on valentines and stated that I should join her and family on a pre-booked vacation in may. I met with her on thurs and she started to cry as soon as we went out, saying that I didn't care about her. At the end of the night I told her that I wanted her back (by text). After much discussion I decided to give her three weeks to make her mind up. Have I done the right thing here? Anyway she asked me what I was doing yesterday and I stated that I was going to see an ex ex ex gf that I had met in the pub by accident on wednesday. She also has broken with her bf and I have no feelings for her, just for my ex. Anyway after telling her this she went mad and said that her family also agreed. Have I ruined my chances, is she wanting me? Should I just start admitting my feelings asap as until now I've been playing hard to get and basially playing mind games, these have stopped as I know its wrong.
iouaname Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 I'm a bit confused. You told her that you wanted to get back together? What was her response?
Author OSCAR_BUSTOS21 Posted February 11, 2013 Author Posted February 11, 2013 She intially said wow but then said she'd like to look at sorting things out and asked me over friday for her sisters bday where we didn't talk about it. Sh asked me to stay with her that night so I got into bed and she fell asleep. I then got dressed and left without waking her. After several phonecalls and texts throughout the night she drove 45 mins and got to my house. Just as I woke up she entered my bedroom. I then said uve got 3 weeks.
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