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I need feedback. I'm hanging with this girl for the past two months but haven't slept together yet. I noticed that she likes texting even when I'm with her. Sometimes I just want to grab her phone and say, "when we're together, we're together and I want your undivided attention. you can text other guys on your own time".

 

Ladies. How would you feel if a guy said that to you? How would you respond?

Fellas. Have you tried something similar? What was her response?

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If I was into him that would be awesome. If I didn't I'd yell at him. A lot

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If I was into him that would be awesome. If I didn't I'd yell at him. A lot

 

lol, thanks. I guess I need to figure out if she is into me or not.

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I need feedback. I'm hanging with this girl for the past two months but haven't slept together yet. I noticed that she likes texting even when I'm with her. Sometimes I just want to grab her phone and say, "when we're together, we're together and I want your undivided attention. you can text other guys on your own time".

 

Ladies. How would you feel if a guy said that to you? How would you respond?

Fellas. Have you tried something similar? What was her response?

 

I would definitely tell her... but honestly big red flag there!!

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I need feedback. I'm hanging with this girl for the past two months but haven't slept together yet. I noticed that she likes texting even when I'm with her. Sometimes I just want to grab her phone and say, "when we're together, we're together and I want your undivided attention. you can text other guys on your own time".

 

Ladies. How would you feel if a guy said that to you? How would you respond?

Fellas. Have you tried something similar? What was her response?

 

I wouldn't mind it....

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I need feedback. I'm hanging with this girl for the past two months but haven't slept together yet. I noticed that she likes texting even when I'm with her. Sometimes I just want to grab her phone and say, "when we're together, we're together and I want your undivided attention. you can text other guys on your own time".

 

Ladies. How would you feel if a guy said that to you? How would you respond?

Fellas. Have you tried something similar? What was her response?

 

Texting or messing around on your phone while you're alone with someone is just plain rude, imo.

 

I haven't had anybody I'm seeing/hanging out with do this to me, but some of my friends are serious offenders. With them, I just stop talking and give them the "not impressed" look, until they look up, realize what the face is for, and apologize. That always gets them back on track. Maybe that'll work for you too (she'll at least take it better than being lectured, even though I'm sure she deserves it). And yes, guys can give the "not impressed" look too :p

 

http://i.istockimg.com/file_thumbview_approve/1709840/2/stock-photo-1709840-not-impressed-guy.jpg

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